Bags I live in a massive old house, in the boonies where there are no jobs, no infrastucture- lots of mountains and trees, cows and manure heaps. But we've bought it with the sweat of our hard work- it was the price of a 2 up-2-down terrasse in Leicester - and is out of the equation.
As said, life is not fair. If you are suggesting that we should all be equal and live in the same size house, etc, then we need to go back to Old soviet Union or DDR. We could argue the pros and cons, and having lived for a while in East Berlin, there are many there who yearn to go back to the old system, and I understand them. But this is not what we are talking about, is it? Now I'd be very happy to discuss if it is fair or not fair that some professionals and business people earn more than others- but again this is not the purpose of this thread, or is it? Fact is, we are not all the same - and many people I know who have built businesses and reached professional status DO NOT COME FROM PRIVILEGED BACKGROUNDS - ask Lord Sugar, and so many of the NHS and private consultants. As said before, people like my OH who have suffered great hardship get there by seer determination and hard work - without a bean to live on, sacrificing all to get there. Others with the same brains and opportunities (or lack of) do not - they make a different choice. Like my brother, same parents, same bringing-up, same opportunities, more intelligent- he went a different way. Why do some people want to work and succeed and others not - a hugely complicated issue- but to say that all who succeed come from privileged backgrounds, and that all who do not succeed, are totally not responsible for their choices, is just not correct. OH worked 130+ hours per week for several years when we were first married - and even at the end of his career worked a minimum of 90- so don't begrudge him his old farmhouse in the sticks. Many retirees move to FRance because property out in the sticks is so cheap. A 4 bed + barns and workshops and a huge amount of land in the Dordogne for sale for 185.000 Euros if you are interested 
I cannot see how it is considered uncaring to suggest that flats in town centres and old industrial mills would be more suitable for older and younger people - and that families should have priority on houses with gardens.