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GadaboutGran Thu 04-Jul-13 10:57:27

After 27 years of living 20 miles from Reading, home town of Ricky Gervaise, I'm at last beginning to appreciate it. It is so unpretentious & just gets on with working & living & adapting itself - & the rail links can take you away easily to anywhere. Might have been different if Henry VIII hadn't destroyed the great abbey & if the choice for the site for the new University had been Reading, not Oxford. And if Kate doesn't make it back to London for the birth, Reading could have a new image..

gracesmum Fri 05-Jul-13 11:42:35

They hadn't built the second runway in Willam the Conk's day, Gadabout. smile

FlicketyB Fri 05-Jul-13 14:13:51

Have lived and worked in and around Reading for most of my life and seen it grow from a country town surrounded by countryside to the centre of a huge urban sprawl that has encompassed all of eastern Berkshire. That is why nearly 20 years ago we moved nearly 30 miles to the north west, while still staying within the old bounds of Berkshire.I still visit it regularly, several times a month, and have friends there but when I go there I am always glad to head home.

Since the trains reached Reading it has been too close to London. The town's rail connections make most of Britain accessible by rail. But too many people live in Reading for convenience but commute in or out for work. The Hexagon is a great theatre but rarely attracts really top touring companies, London is too close.

The town centre is, and always has been dominated, by chain stores, independent shops disappeared decades ago. Even in the 1950s when we lived between Reading and Oxford. Reading was where my mother went for school uniforms, underwear, and humdrum household items. Oxford was where she went for anything nice or stylish. When we lived and I worked in Reading I still preferred to catch the train to Guildford or Bath to shop.

Sorry to be so down on Reading. I have lived there, was educated there as were my children but I have spent 50 years trying to belong to Reading without success. It is such a jelly fish of a town.

Gorki Fri 05-Jul-13 15:05:23

Oh yes FlicketyB I remember taking all my children to Jackson's for their uniform every July when I think they had a sale on.
The Girls' Grammar school has a very good reputation and attracts students from as far afield as London. Very difficult to get into though.
I agree with your thoughts on Reading and would even prefer to shop in Bracknell Deeda

noodles Fri 05-Jul-13 15:45:04

I've in Reading for more than 30 years and annual trips to Jacksons or Heelas to buy school uniforms are imprinted on my mind! I buy a lot of stuff online now and seldom go into town these days.

There are quite a few of us who live close to Reading. Perhaps we should think about having a Reading meetup?

annodomini Fri 05-Jul-13 15:54:17

My sons both live fairly close to Reading. If you have a gathering while I'm visiting, I might invite myself!

Gorki Fri 05-Jul-13 16:44:35

I'm all for a Reading meetup smile Any suggestions for date or place ?

noodles Fri 05-Jul-13 16:57:46

Somewhere in the Oracle, or perhaps the cafe in John Lewis?

numberplease Fri 05-Jul-13 17:23:20

Anybody else like me, with a fondness for Plymouth? Last time we were there it was looking a bit run down, but I still love it for the shopping centre and the lovely seafront area.

noodles Fri 05-Jul-13 18:27:03

Bump

If we don't push on with this it won't happen! So, how about next week or the week after?

Loads of places to meet up in Reading.... any suggestions?

Gorki Fri 05-Jul-13 22:01:06

I could manage Wednesday or Thursday next week or any day the week after.
I think the café in John Lewis is a good idea.
Can anyone else manage one of these days?

Deedaa Fri 05-Jul-13 22:50:08

Can't do Wednesday or Thursday next week, but could do any day but Wednesday the following week. I like the cafe in John Lewis too.

Grannylin Fri 05-Jul-13 23:07:40

Agree number It's run down in parts, the bus station is smelly and hideous, the design of the shopping centre is laughable... but the views from the Hoe, the pasties and the people are wonderful.

numberplease Fri 05-Jul-13 23:11:06

Grannylin, I haven`t been for a good few years, unfortunately, but the shopping centre was still OK then. We loved watching young lads diving off the high platforms, rather them than me!

noodles Sat 06-Jul-13 16:04:07

Gorki Deedaa Can't do next Thursday, but Thursday 18th is fine.

Gorki Sat 06-Jul-13 18:17:20

Thursday 18th is fine for me. Shall I start a new thread to give other locals the opportunity to join us ? They might not all be reading this one.

Greatnan Sat 06-Jul-13 19:04:33

Bolton people refer to Westhoughton people as 'Cow-yeds'. The story is that a farmer asked for advice because his best cow had got her head stuck in a five-bar gate. He was advised to use a saw, so he cut off he cow's head.

Deedaa Sat 06-Jul-13 19:09:16

Thursday 18th is fine for me at the moment (Husband's health permitting, but if I keep worrying about that I would never leave the house!) It would be good if we could get a few more to join us - there must be quite a few members in the area.

noodles Sat 06-Jul-13 19:12:03

That's a good idea Gorki

Deedaa Hope you can make it.

absent Sat 06-Jul-13 19:58:10

Gadabout They change the take-off pattern at Heathrow when the Queen is in residence at Windsor.

Deedaa Sat 06-Jul-13 21:01:23

Such a shame that they built the castle right under the flight path grin I've never noticed much difference in the air traffic whether the Queen is there or not.
I remember being in Windsor a few days after 9/11 and actually ducking when a plane flew over the castle. There was a real feeling of "What the hell is that doing?"