So....here I am again. Just checking that everyone is comfortable. I must have been off my head to consider leaving you lot. When I told Mr soop that I intended doing so, his mouth dropped and he asked me "are you unwell...?"
I wish to stress that no one caused me to be offended. There was no "falling out"...in fact, I've oodles of respect for GN. I've shared many ups and downs with members who have helped me enormously. Maybe I was beginning to feel that I had nothing to contribute. I'm not a clever clogs and neither do I seek out confrontation. At heart, I'm a soppy so and so. Perhaps I'm best suited to the relaxed approach. That's why I've opened the kitchen.
Nellie ...pheromones are apparently useful when a cat is stressed. I shall hunt for the blurb, so that I can tell you more. 