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sunseeker Fri 30-Aug-13 16:43:24

I no longer get the "silent" calls but now when I answer a recorded voice tells me my call cannot be taken at this time and to leave a message! I started off by politely asking them not to ring again but after the 5th one this week I feel like threatening to track them down and cut out their hearts angry

Nonu Fri 30-Aug-13 16:52:14

Oh we get these damn "silent calls" all the time .

Just get to the phone , pick up , it"s D E A D !!

shysal Fri 30-Aug-13 17:38:50

I have a referee's whistle next to the phone, with which I sometimes leave a very loud 'message'! I have caller ID, but DD1's number is withheld, so I do have to answer those, but ignore the international and 0845 ones.
I was told that these centres call 10 numbers all at once, and as soon as one is answered, the others are cut off resulting in the silent calls. angry

Nonu Fri 30-Aug-13 17:41:05

Shysal , I have heard that it does not make it any less annoying .

I do I am afraid , if I get someone trying to sell me , just quietly place the phone down and walk away .

Anne58 Fri 30-Aug-13 17:41:44

Make a note of the number (use 1471 if you don't have caller ID) then just put it into Google. There are several sites that you can use, but one called "Who calls me" is pretty good. You can pretty quickly find out if it is (for example) a PPI one, or energy etc.

Nonu Fri 30-Aug-13 17:42:01

Oh & turn radio UP !!

Anne58 Fri 30-Aug-13 17:45:05

Nonu with the "selling" ones, I try to bear in mind that it might be a student or some one just trying to earn, and if it's things like solar energy, double glazing etc I fib and tell them that I am only renting the house on a 6 month tenancy. This gets them out of my hair and gives them the chance to make another call where they might get lucky.

Nonu Fri 30-Aug-13 17:57:35

Phoenix , that is Neat !!

I like your style !!

Movedalot Fri 30-Aug-13 18:04:25

shysal I was told that using the whistle could be illegal!

I believe that keep pressing the # key annoys them.

Anne58 Fri 30-Aug-13 18:05:37

Thank you Nonu blush

sunseeker Fri 30-Aug-13 18:44:02

phoenix unfortunately the calls are "number withheld" so I can't look them up. I did report the silent calls to the Information Commissioners Office (ico.gov.uk) - you can report calls to them even if you don't have the number. I suppose I will have to start again with these

FlicketyB Fri 30-Aug-13 19:07:04

these calls are to machines with a recorded message. There is no one there so whistles, radios etc etc are pointless.

I get them too and they are infuriating.

simtib Fri 30-Aug-13 20:03:17

Ofcom should force BT and the other phone companies to provide a number that you can ring after a call, that reports that call as a nuisance call. BT does have the number of number withheld calls so more of this calls could be traced and stopped.

PRINTMISS Sat 31-Aug-13 18:08:50

We now leave all calls for the answerphone, our friends/relations will always leave a message, and if we really want to know who called, we do 1471 when convenient for us.

sunseeker Sat 31-Aug-13 18:28:00

I would normally leave the answerphone to pick up the messages but both my brother and my mother (who live in Australia) are unwell and I answer in case it is a family member ringing with news.

Ana Sat 31-Aug-13 18:43:53

The trouble with 1471 is that if someone else has called in the meantime, you can't find out the previous number that called.

feetlebaum Sat 31-Aug-13 18:57:24

I made up my mind not to answer 'number withheld' calls - after all, I wouldn't read anonymous letters...

Ana Sat 31-Aug-13 19:20:16

Wouldn't you? Surely you'd have read it before you realised it was anonymous...! grin

PRINTMISS Sun 01-Sept-13 07:46:10

How can you answer 'number with-held' calls, if they with-held their number?

FlicketyB Sun 01-Sept-13 08:14:28

The screen on our phone identifies the caller by name or number. If the phone rings and the screen says 'number withheld' we leave the phone in the cradle and do not answer it.

feetlebaum Sun 01-Sept-13 08:46:03

@Ana - No - the first thing one does with a letter is read the signature - or at least that's what I do!

@PRINTMISS - serves them right! They should leave a message...

Stansgran Sun 01-Sept-13 08:54:51

Our hospital phones with a number withheld which I feel I have to answer but just wait until someone speaks.

12Michael Sun 01-Sept-13 09:47:57

If I get calls I do not want they seem to fall into 2 categories.
International or Unknown me thinks.
These 2 are marketing calls mainly with an Asian voice on the end.
Calls when number is witheld is either ex directory or an official dept such as bank, housing association my case, or other local authority.
I hold a list of friends/family on my phone and those numbers display except if made from an ex directory number then it displays witheld.
Mick

Deedaa Thu 24-Oct-13 23:21:17

In this week's Woman's Weekly there was a letter from a lady who always answers nuisance calls in Portugese or Italian. So today I tried answering a call very politely in Italian. The stunned silence at the other end was wonderful! Then she said she couldn't understand me, so I repeated what I'd said and she hung up - can't think why!

harrigran Thu 24-Oct-13 23:47:54

The latest trick by these cold callers is to somehow use your own number, twice last week the house phone showed our own number when it rang. When I answered the phone it was an Indian call centre. I am wondering if I am also paying for these calls.