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I now know I'm old

(24 Posts)
deserving Sat 12-Oct-13 16:36:54

G, can't you retire for a day or two, then start up again? I seem to think a Dr I am aware of did that.

kittylester Sat 12-Oct-13 16:32:04

I might be older than lots of people but I am not an elder - they're trees!

j08 Sat 12-Oct-13 10:01:14

Very funny! hmmgrin

Aka Sat 12-Oct-13 09:28:24

My memory's not as sharp as it used to be.
Also, my memory's not as sharp as it used to be.

sunseeker Sat 12-Oct-13 09:12:23

I treat my age as just a number, isn't it down to how you feel and how you want to live your life? Some days I feel my age (64), some days I feel around 25 and others about 108 (not too many of those!). Yes I don't hear as well as I used to but I am, thankfully, free of many of the aches and pains others my age have. I don't spend my time knitting (nothing wrong with that if it is what you like) or watching daytime TV, I keep busy and make the most of my time.

Greatnan Sat 12-Oct-13 09:09:17

My mind knows I am old but my body does not seem to have realised it yet! (But I look my age - a bit scrawny and weather-beaten.)

janeainsworth Sat 12-Oct-13 09:07:47

I don't want to be an 'elder' thanks!
It summons up images of bearded patriarchal churchmen, possibly the Amish in Pennsylvania and Ohio.
Nothing wrong with being old. I'd rather be old than dead, anyway.
Galen commiserations sad

berdie Sat 12-Oct-13 09:05:48

"Elders" hmmmm sounds like something from a Star Trek movie. Good word though.smile

Gagagran Sat 12-Oct-13 08:57:19

Why can't we be called "the elders" - sounds much more valued than plain "old" or even "elderly". Speaking of the latter, our local paper once referred to a 50-year old as elderly. I nearly choked with indignation. Obviously written by a wet-behind-the ears teenage reporter we decided! grin

petallus Sat 12-Oct-13 08:53:11

At 70 I know I cannot be described as middle-aged and therefore assume the correct term is old which I am quite happy with.

However I don't feel the same as a 90 year old so maybe I should say 'young old'.

berdie Sat 12-Oct-13 08:49:42

My DW has to stand down as a Magistrate, in February as she is 70. She loves the work, but thats the MoJ rules.

LizG Sat 12-Oct-13 08:36:29

It isn't the state that is so awful (apart from the dreadful aches and pains I could well do without) but that horrible word: 'old'. Old - past its best, going off. How about 'recycled' as suggested on FB this morning. That's more positive. Or maybe . . . . . .

BerylBee Sat 12-Oct-13 08:34:31

I'm pleased to be old also.
I celebrate getting this far.
Not everyone does. I have friends & relatives who didn't. You must also have had loved people in your life who have died before reaching the age you are now.

liminetta Sat 12-Oct-13 08:23:05

I am pleased to be old. I am as old as you, GALEN, and to me, old means being free to do exactly as I please! although this may not be true for everyone.

Galen Fri 11-Oct-13 21:52:22

Tell the Monistry of justice! Age discrimination is now illegal!apart from if you work for the MOJQhmm

NfkDumpling Fri 11-Oct-13 21:45:37

What's wrong with old? Surely it means experienced, knowledgeable, wise, tolerant, empathic, etc, etc ..........

ElliMary Fri 11-Oct-13 20:27:55

When is old then? Stansgran. Because if nearing 70 isn't old when does being old begin? Old is not a term of abuse. When youth and middle age have passed then you are old. I don't know what else you can call it.

Stansgran Fri 11-Oct-13 19:44:40

Hang on there Galen we did the same English syllabus for O level so I'm four years off 72 and I have grey hair but I'm not old at all apart for my DD saying I really was a lovely old lady. Hmm.

Galen Fri 11-Oct-13 19:32:56

I also have white silver hair! And wrinkles! And the dreaded 'screws' as we called 'em in the Black Country! (Not the pleasurable kind with a gorgeous toy boy! The painful kind!sad )

Oldgreymare Fri 11-Oct-13 18:30:26

I know I'm old because I'm sitting here wearing a vest, a woollen polo-necked jumper and a thick cardi and I'm still chilly! sad

Oldgreymare Fri 11-Oct-13 18:28:28

A Spring Chicken Galen.....don't let them persuade you otherwise! smile For those of you who haven't had the joy of meeting Galen you would never guess that she is within 4 years of the dreaded 72!

Galen Fri 11-Oct-13 18:12:55

I'm within 4years of retiring. I have to retire at 72. I'm 69 in December. The ministry of justice mandatory retiring age!

Stansgran Fri 11-Oct-13 18:01:12

So you've been asked or not asked?and do you want to?

Galen Fri 11-Oct-13 16:49:02

Because, I've just received a circular inviting tribunal doctors to apply to sit on the criminal injuries tribunal.
Basically it said if you're in 4years of retiring we don't bother![