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CHRISTMAS CARDS.

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Nonu Sat 07-Dec-13 22:37:30

I am sitting here chillaxing , candles flickering , Christmas lights flickering as decs went up last weekend, music playing softly , Mr N sitting in parlour watching TV, had a lovely supper, mussels & prawns. So everything in the garden should be lovely.
Hell no, I am fed up & I will tell you why because I have not done Christmas cards. As each year goes by it becomes more and more of a chore .
Wonder if others feel the same ?

This is Nonu"s tchsad face x

POGS Thu 12-Dec-13 16:18:30

I like to send cards and receive them

I do however think that from this year I might 'ring' most of my friends and family to send god wishes as it is obviously cheaper, given our phone contract, it's also more personal really isn't it.

Receiving a card or phone call can really make you feel good about life in a very simplistic way can't it.

We would moan if we didn't get any.

dahlia Thu 12-Dec-13 16:55:25

How apt that I open Gransnet to find this topic on top of the list - I've just made a start on my UK cards today, having lost my vital list of names and addresses and panicked! List safely found in a carrier bag (?) and many of the cards posted, so I now feel better. I do enjoy the yearly contact with people from the past, none of whom grace us with a round robin, I'm glad to say. I buy charity cards from a pop-up shop in our local Methodist church, and try (and fail) to find something original to say in each card. I absolutely love Christmas, we'll be getting the decorations sorted in the next day or two, lights already up around the outside of the house and DH busy in Santa's workshop creating new delights from bits of conifer, pine cones, etc. - I think he will have spent more than he saves, but it keeps him happy! After four years spent on renovating our house, this will be the first Christmas when we can all be together for over 7 years, so I'm well and truly excited! Twelve around the table, can't wait!
At the same time I do feel for those of you spending your first Christmas without your partner. My dear friend Pam was widowed this year, and despite all the support from family and friends, the first Christmas must be particularly poignant. I shall be thinking of you all.flowers

annodomini Thu 12-Dec-13 17:28:33

So far, only one round robin which is most entertaining, written by the husband for a change. How can I match that? Won't even try!

purple Thu 12-Dec-13 23:24:23

Christmas cards are fine for keeping in touch with distant friends (although how distant for how long is a hot topic in our house - is it really a friendship if you haven't otherwise been in touch for 25 years?) but what I find really bizarre is all our dear neighbours and friends, who we see all the time, dropping a card through the letter box.

The other more irritating ones are clearly trying to get - or keep - your business, from the milkman to the IFA. These are closely followed by the ones with an enclosure, the dreaded round robin.

I also suspect it's a bit like how many friends do you have on Facebook - kind of trophy friends - you must have at least 500 to show how popular you are. Do some people send you a card so you have to send them one, and that will add to the huge collection which will in turn impress your visitors?

Off to lick a few (expensive) stamps and write a few trivial lines to a (very) few friends.

Happy Christmas everyone!

bikergran Fri 13-Dec-13 21:08:45

sorry not read through all the posts...but I send some people "virtual cards" not sure if I am allowed to mention the name........but they are traditional animated cards with music..and there are some lovely ones...there is a slight cost but it is minimal....there are cards to cover most subjects..you can also send a message and a note,.and it was! I think £7 for the year....

tiggypiro Fri 13-Dec-13 22:51:39

Half way round my 'ring-ups' instead of cards and so far I have had one heart attack, one breast cancer, one lung cancer and one death.
Do I finish my 'ring-ups' or stop them due to inducing bad news ?

NfkDumpling Sat 14-Dec-13 07:11:58

Carry on Tiggy. I think ring ups are a good idea. It can lead to a get-to--get her and renewed friendship. I mix and match. Some get cards and some a call depending on how much we're in touch. Close family don't get anything - I don't see the point of giving someone a card when you're seeing them in person.

We get a round robin from friends we haven't seen for 25 years and it's so entertaining I've given up trying to reply and now wait for it to arrive, then ring them.

mrsmopp Sat 14-Dec-13 08:48:54

Would like to send some attractive e.cards with an explanation that donation will be made to British Legion.
But can someone tell me how to do an e.card? Is there a good website where the cards are free?
I an then just send normal cards to people who are not on email, and that number gets fewer every year.

annodomini Sat 14-Dec-13 09:41:41

I don't suppose I could be accused of advertising if I mention that I have found www.jacquielawson.com/ cost effective and I think this is the site that biker must mean. There is an annual subscription but then there is no limit to the number of cards you can send.

bikergran Sat 14-Dec-13 10:54:15

annodomonuri lol yes!! that's the one..hope you don't get your hands slapped...but if you do I will slap my own!!! it's a lovely site and the last time it was £7 for the year , no spam etc etc .I have been with them about 3 yrs now.

bikergran Sat 14-Dec-13 10:54:52

sorry annodomini who typed that!!!!grin

annsixty Sat 14-Dec-13 11:35:23

I have had a lovely 12 Days of Christmas e-card from that site and it was much appreciated. My friend has sent them for some years now.

mrsmopp Sat 14-Dec-13 11:39:12

Thanks for the tip! It sounds like just the thing I'm looking for.
My problem is solved!

kittylester Sat 14-Dec-13 11:47:15

He's done it! tchshock DH has written his card - of course, I took it to the post after he put it on the hall table - does he think this place is a flipping hotel tchgrin

Nonu Sat 14-Dec-13 11:56:10

Give Mr K a big cheer . he probably does KITTY as you spoil him too much !
tchgrin

TheReadingRoom Sat 14-Dec-13 12:22:00

To quote a post from Facebook:

"I wrote all mine before I put them away last Xmas, saved so much time." !

Dad & I did all ours last weekend; I print the address labels as there is no way I can write them all out and also print the same addresses onto plain paper to use as a check list. Most of Dad's and ours double up so saving on postage - all done in about 3 hours followed by big mug of tea !

Elegran Sat 14-Dec-13 13:16:30

I've done and posted the cards that just need a short greeting. Tonight I shall do the ones that get an update (also pretty short) and a couple of letters. All presents bought or on order, tree up and decorated. Just have to hang a few baubles and some tinsel in the front porch and, if anything is left in the box, in the conservatory.

D-in-L has Christmas meal under control. The only response to "What shall I bring?" is a box of crackers.