Regarding "guys" I usually look pointedly behind me if addressed as guys, especially in restaurants etc. Adding. " yes where are the men? Or "I think we came on our own" . Younger waiters etc usually look bewildered.
Silly old bat flits across their faces
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Would you think it was odd if a younger person wanted to befriend you?
