GILF

Yes, we all know what the letters stand for, absent
Do try to keep up!

*Dahlia , lovely dinner and sparkling conversation,blow that--, just get down and dirty--.
Time and tide , I am NOT getting any younger !!

What are you saying Absent?! It is based on Justine's use of MILF in the April Fool joke.

And we know what it means.

If the abbreviation GILF is based on the preppy high school and college boys' arrogant use of MILF, then conversation, flowers, dinner and romance play no part – it just refers to someone you want to fuck. Not much honesty here then.

Sometimes just a lovely dinner and sparkling conversation would do. How about Charles Dance - he has such a lovely voice, and a good sense of humour, too!

If only, NannaAnna...[sigh]!

Why can't being interesting and good company but also physically fanciable go together … whatever one's age???

I agree with you Tegan, I would like a man to find me interesting and good company. In my last job I used to have interesting conversations with a man from upstairs when we met in the communal kitchen. He seemed such a genuine person. About my age, not good looking, but nice. It was quite a flattering experience to feel that a man actually liked talking to me, made me realise how rarely that happens to women of a certain age (or is it just me?)

I'm with phoenix on this one. I just want a man to find me interesting and fun to be with [and vice versa] and the imagination never goes beyond talking. It's dispiriting when you think you're saying something very profound and you know they're just itching to go and chat with young miss pretty thing across the room . Nonu; Ryan Gosling has got eyes that are too close together [although I'm the only person I know who thinks it]. He's all ours !

When I was in my early 20s I really fancied Charlton Heston!
And in my 30s and 40s I was totally besotted with Imran Khan (the cricketer). Chatted to him a few times as ex-husband was a cricketer. Gorgeous ….

I'll have a share of Piers Brosnan please!!

Good choice Woody. I dunno how we're gonna share these out.

oh look at him He looks somehow vulnerable

Martin Shaw.

Martin Shaw (smile)

Oh Yes!!!!! Love him!!!!!

WTF is his name? 'ang on...

Judge John Deed - cant remember his real name but he was one of two characters in a series in the 70's ?? I guess someone will come up with it and I will remember it as soon as I have posted this. He has to be as Judge John Deed though and not as Inspector George Gently!

And does he pronounce his name Seen Been or Shawn Bawn? And if not why not?

Is Sean Bean a grandad?

Kris Kristofferson,

mustn't leave out the lovely Rik I mean Hugh

I've given up caring whether they're grandads or not.

definitely Denzel

As he's been married for 30 years and has four children, there's a good chance he could be a grandpa. I nominate Denzel Washington. No contest!

Roger - Richard who the f--- cares. He's still sex on legs. And was a wonderful Prospero in The Tempest at The Globe.

thank God you are here to put me right , Feetle

Thanks jingl!