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POGS Fri 29-Aug-14 12:11:05

Are you aware that a 4 year old boy with a brain tumour has been taken from hospital by his parents and is now known to be in France?

The police are asking everybody in France to look out for a grey Hyundai car registration no. KP 60 HWK.

Ashya King had an operation a week ago and is in a wheelchair. He is being fed by a tube with a battery life that runs out possibly TODAY.

IF YOU CAN WILL YOU INFORM AS MANY PEOPLE AS POSSIBLE AND THE CONTACT NUMBER FOR THE FRENCH POLICE IS THE USUAL 112.
THE ENGLISH POLICE NUMBER IS 00448450454545 (Hampshire Police)

Thanks.

Nelliemoser Thu 04-Sept-14 09:31:59

Mishap Another good point in this sad saga.

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 04-Sept-14 09:39:23

But, if that is what the father really thought, Mishap, why not report the fact? We know they must have had strong feeling regarding choice of future treatment.

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 04-Sept-14 09:41:35

We don't seem very intent on leaving the family alone on here, do we? Why would the newspapers be any different to us, their readers.

POGS Thu 04-Sept-14 10:42:30

Mishap

It was the father who said the words on camera whilst being spoken to, the media cameras were merely the conduit for his words.

If anybody was watching in real time the events of yesterday it was very confusing because of the contradictions from comment to comment. When you read papers or look on-line it doesn't give you the same perspective possibly.

If the family thought the hospital were going to 'kil him or turn him into a vegetable', the fathers words not any media outlet, then it would have a possible bearing on his removal from hospital.

petallus Thu 04-Sept-14 10:43:59

There are reports this morning that the Czech hospital confirms it took Southampton two weeks to respond to their request for medical records.

Also, did anybody else get the impression the child's operation was a couple of weeks ago at most. Seems it was six weeks ago today.

Tegan Thu 04-Sept-14 10:47:13

Yes; that's the impression I got petallus.

Mishap Thu 04-Sept-14 11:17:21

The media invite these sort of comments - last night an interviewer said to the father "I expect you are feeling very angry" - I think that is what is called a leading question. Just trying to get a reaction that will make a good soundbite. It is unacceptable.

Unfortunately when things are reported in the news media, many people believe them to be fact rather then an opinion expressed while in an emotional state. The father's statement should not have been splashed around. Others facing the same difficult decisions will to find this helpful - it is clearly not fact.

Mishap Thu 04-Sept-14 11:18:03

"will not find this helpful" - slip of the finger.

Mamie Thu 04-Sept-14 11:28:31

There were two operations, one six weeks before and one a week before.
I do not agree with splashing the comments of a distraught father across the papers either. I can't see that it helps anyone, least of all other parents.

Mishap Thu 04-Sept-14 11:28:46

We must not lose sight of the fact that this poor little lad has already suffered brain damage that will be irreversible. That is clear from the videos. Whatever happens now, the family are likely to blame the doctors for the outcome; but sometimes there is no cure and no way forward and there is no-one to blame.

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 04-Sept-14 13:38:13

petallus shock

So deceitful.

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 04-Sept-14 13:39:19

Sorry. Didn't see your post Mamie. Hard to really tell what's what isn't it? hmm

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 04-Sept-14 13:40:12

I wonder where the parents would be now, without the media publicity.

petallus Thu 04-Sept-14 13:58:26

In a much worse position than they are now I imagine.

There is a charity for the promotion of proton therapy and so far they have received £30,00 or so in donations from the general public. Added to this, a mystery donor has contributed £150,000.

The charity will keep any money which is left over.

MiniMouse Fri 05-Sept-14 20:02:48

Just heard on news, his parents have permission to take him to Prague. He will go on private jet.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 05-Sept-14 20:35:28

Wow! Hope he gets some treatment that will really help him.

Elegran Fri 05-Sept-14 23:12:08

Sadly, I fear it may be too late to really help him.

nightowl Sat 06-Sept-14 00:50:00

I have read somewhere (can't remember where) that his prognosis is in fact not as bleak as first suggested and with treatment he could be cured. That would be wonderful if its true.

durhamjen Sat 06-Sept-14 01:00:49

When my husband had his operation to remove his brain tumour he was home within a week. There was no problem with the parents taking Ashya out of hospital a week after his operation. They usually wait a couple of weeks before giving any radiotherapy. A mask has to be made, and the swelling allowed to go down. They usually give steroids for that.

Do hope it works for him, as you said, nightowl.

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 06-Sept-14 09:54:26

Yes. That would be wonderful.

petallus Sat 06-Sept-14 10:49:15

It's not too late. The treatment has to be given within six weeks of the operation. I think it should start today for maximum benefit. The Prague hospital say they can start in 4 to 5 days.

penguinpaperback Sat 06-Sept-14 10:55:02

Yes I hope this treatment can start as soon as possible now.

Aka Sun 07-Sept-14 07:17:37

If he can be cured that is wonderful and if, sadly, he can't then his parents will know they did everything they could for him. It is awful to feel helpless to save your child.

Galen Sun 07-Sept-14 07:48:06

They didn't say cured. They say it's not fatal. Very different. Any brain damage is likely to be pernament

Elizabeth1 Sun 07-Sept-14 10:23:08

Let the sun shine on this beautiful boy sunshine