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Boyfriends, girlfriends, beaux, lovers, partners, wives, husbands.

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NanKate Tue 30-Jun-15 17:43:03

What were their jobs, professions?

E.G. From 16 to me now at 68

Schoolboy
Student
Farmer
Teacher
Boxer
Same farmer
Waiter
Architect
Right bastard hmm
Town Planner (for 43 years so far)

janerowena Tue 30-Jun-15 23:43:45

How many pages can I write?

ninathenana Tue 30-Jun-15 23:45:35

Granny23 that's quiet a varied career grin

NanKate Wed 01-Jul-15 07:21:37

Janerowena list as many of your beaux as you like, we ready to be astonished. smile

kittylester Wed 01-Jul-15 07:28:33

Management trainee - I was 16, he was 22
Fireman - mum was not happy!!
Draughtsman - he drank!
Dentist, husband, father, grandfather...........

janerowena Wed 01-Jul-15 12:21:01

I can't actually remember them all!

janerowena Wed 01-Jul-15 12:21:41

Maybe I should treat it as a memory exercise.

kittylester Wed 01-Jul-15 12:27:43

Nor can I Jane those are the memorable ones - DH is still here so I can remember him fairly easily!

tickle Wed 01-Jul-15 12:50:58

Schoolboy
Mature (not very) student
Housing officer
Something boring in an accountancy firm
Something interesting in environmental science
Lawyer
Something dull in a big bank
Charity worker

annodomini Wed 01-Jul-15 13:56:41

Physicist
Rugby player
Archivist
Vet
Teacher, Lecturer, Education Officer, College Principal. All round prat.
('Reader, I married him')

kittylester Wed 01-Jul-15 14:00:50

anno grin

Teetime Wed 01-Jul-15 14:26:05

Schoolboy- Captain of everything!- paperboy

Student (Fairground ride operator on a seaside pier)

Record Shop Manager- 60s cool dude.

Clerk- engineering company

Rent Boy (collecting council rents)

Health and Safety Officer (one of the first ones)

Human Resources Manager

Head of Human Resources (large outer London unitary authority)

Retired - Volunteer Custody Inspector
Bowls Coach

granjura Wed 01-Jul-15 14:26:22

from 15

mechanical engineer
student
geologist
film director
marketing director
doctor

still with last one, 45 years on ...

feetlebaum Wed 01-Jul-15 15:05:40

Interesting exercise... lessee now:

Model / Playwright

Pianist / Singer

Wrote occasional lyrics / mother

Secretary to City Mayor

Dancer / Croupier

Perpetual student / Model

Call despatch op. / Terminal engineer

annsixty Wed 01-Jul-15 15:34:19

Isn't that what hit men are called? What an exciting life !!

annsixty Wed 01-Jul-15 15:36:25

On reflection that is termination!!

KatyK Wed 01-Jul-15 16:00:03

Blimey - you've all lived a lot more than I have. I met my DH (who worked in a drawing office then) when I was 18, married him at 20 and 46 years on we are still married. I only really had one boyfriend before that, when I was 16. (I was too shy and under confident to go out with anyone). Bizarrely (as I have mentioned on here before) I was mad about the boy I went out with at 16 and used to pray (in my innocence) that I would marry him. My DH has exactly the same name as him confused Too many brackets in this post!

Teetime Wed 01-Jul-15 16:10:56

I got it wrong I thought it was what your current DH career had been. So if its boyfriends here is my list

DJ (DD1s Father)

Heating Engineer (DD2s Father (DH No1 deceased the booze got him)

Doctor (super large ego didn't last)

Head of HR (current DH for last 37 years)

harrigran Wed 01-Jul-15 17:12:16

Prince
Count
Duke
Lord
grin

janerowena Wed 01-Jul-15 17:13:21

So here are the bits I can remember edited highlights. It was harder than I thought it would be, just to get them in the right order.

Lots of schoolboys. grin

Trainee stockbroker (sadly went bankrupt a few years ago)

Actor - still acting, he occasionally still pops up on tv but mainly does theatre now that he is considered 'too old' (so he says) at 60. We meet up if he up here at theatres not too far away. He was a poor RADA student when we went out.

Trainee Accountant (as was I at the time)

Surveyor

Banker - too fond of clubbing

Dentist - met him at Annabel's when with the above. grin

Farmer - should have married him, now married to my BF!

Hotel Manager x about five, I was working as a hotel accountant!

Actor again, by now he was in Rep all over the UK so not easy to keep the relationship going.

Guitarist in Band, stupidly married him, accounts all day and groupie all night. He finally decided to have a rest and use his degree in architecture, but took jobs all over the world and became an alcoholic. I eventually gave up and left.

Another Surveyor.

Professional musician and singer, p/t teacher DBH who became a full-time Head of Music, p/t singer and keen athlete when we had DS. As he proposed after only a week, he has only himself to blame.

I think there was a travel agent in there somewhere...

annodomini Wed 01-Jul-15 17:15:58

Oh, I missed out the boozy forestry officer.

kittylester Wed 01-Jul-15 17:30:05

Do you think we drove some of these to drink? grin

NanKate Wed 01-Jul-15 19:11:11

I'm impressed JaneRowena at your memory and your stamina. grin

vampirequeen Wed 01-Jul-15 21:13:47

First love was first husband. This is his list.
Rington's Tea Boy
Hospital porter
Liar
Cheat
Womaniser
Alcoholic
Drug user
Gambler
Mental abuser

Second love is second husband. This is his list.
Area manager
Cleaner
Carer (mine)

janerowena Wed 01-Jul-15 22:31:35

Lots of stamina left Nankate - DBH is younger than me and he wishes I had less sometimes! grin

NanKate Thu 02-Jul-15 10:58:41

Can I hire you out - at Grans' rates of course ? grin