There`s a lady lives round the back of us, we`re not pals as in visiting each other, but we always had a chat whenever we met, and we always send each other a card at Christmas. I haven`t seen her to speak to for quite a while, but have seen carers coming to her house several times each day, and last year, for the first time ever, we didn`t get a card. I put this year`s through her door a few days ago, and yesterday a lady knocked on our door, said she was Gwen`s daughter, thanked us for sending her mum a card, but told us that unfortunately she`s now, at the age of 93, suffering dementia, and is at the moment in respite care. I t was so sad hearing this, like I said, we`ve never been in and out of each others houses, but have always got on, and she was wonderful for her age, much more sprightly than me, even rode a pushbike into town until a couple of years ago!