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droopy boobs and bras - problems buying

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jordana Thu 10-Nov-16 16:53:54

For years I have been buying bras from Marks but for months I have been trying them on in shop, think they fit at the time and then at home find them extremely uncomfortable and have to return them. I have tried expensive and cheap, under wired and not and am having no luck. I am at the moment wearing a sports bra from asda! Is this an age thing, when everything goes south? I get so hot and bothered trying half a dozen on in the shops. Benn measured in marks and john lewis - different sizes! Anyone else have same problems?

constance Sun 13-Nov-16 12:40:55

Legs55 I tried lavender oil for "sweat rash" and it cleared up. Smell like a lavender bag but then I suppose that's a traditional granny aroma grinflowers

goldengirl Sun 13-Nov-16 15:51:38

And when you've got one that fits, how often should you wash it - apart from 'not often'. I wear a bra for 3-4 days before bunging it in a little bag in the washing machine with the delicates

Charleygirl Sun 13-Nov-16 16:37:03

Depends on the weather- during a heatwave, daily.

Ramblingrose22 Sun 13-Nov-16 16:37:53

I have practically no boobs - the opposite of most of those who have posted already. When I was a teenager, my mother used to tell me that I would never find a husband because of this and because I refused to wear bras with masses of padding.

Because clothes don't drape well over a flat chest, I now use post-mastectomy bras with AA cups and pockets which I stuff with a little padding. I'm quite slim so I go for a "natural" look.

These bras are very expensive but I consider myself lucky to have found an acceptable compromise.

grannypiper Sun 13-Nov-16 16:58:25

Rigby and Peller are the best, not much on the high street for 38dd that is actually comfortable although Next has the odd good one

yogagran Sun 13-Nov-16 17:24:23

I'm the same as you goldengirl, three or four days unless it's been hot weather or I've been very energetic. Rigby and Peller tell you to hand wash them every day. Can't be bothered with this and anyway I reckon that the washing machine is more gentle than my hand washing

Lazigirl Sun 13-Nov-16 18:30:25

As such a lot of you are recommending Bravissimo I've had a look, they are very pretty and I'd like to try, so can anyone recommend a non wired, centre straps, non padded cup in Bravissimo please. If not do the side straps give enough support? I do also prefer a bit of a band underneath the cups for extra support, but it seems only sports bras do this.

Granarchist Mon 14-Nov-16 10:29:59

I had a reduction mammaplasty after I finished feeding my second DD. Planned for it from age 17. Health insurance paid as they agreed it was disabling being so gigantic. Best thing I ever did. Now aged 65 and not so slim! R&P are brilliant but I cant afford them but found their factory shop years ago in Northants - I bought a swimsuit of theirs for £15 reduced from £75 (20 yrs ago!) and I am still using it!! I swim a minimum of twice a week - I cant believe I'm still wearing it. I dont know if the shop still exists but this topic has made me think about looking for it - I hate underwired bras and go for sports bras for daily use - but I do get under tit itch.

Daddima Mon 14-Nov-16 14:34:33

Kind of off topic, but looking through various sizes in various shops, I ' ve often wondered why someone who is a DD cup or larger would want a padded bra.

Dianalou Mon 14-Nov-16 14:48:07

This is probably the least sexy look known to woman, but try putting your bra on over a camisole or vest.
It may look a bit odd, but it's much more comfortable and stops the band and underwires digging in.

Elegran Mon 14-Nov-16 15:10:10

Or wear it inside out. The band and seams dig in less from that side (since my lumpectomy my skin is sensitive to ridges)

JackieBee1 Mon 14-Nov-16 17:33:28

Didn't have a problem at all with bras until I got measured at M&S recently :p