Uncomfortable bras

I bought a 44E bra yesterday and haven't tried it on yet. I am so uncomfortable with my huge boobs. I envy those who can go braless.

There's a rather nice phrase that appears on Facebook now and then - Home is where the bra isn't.
A thought to be embroidered and hung on the wall... Bra extenders - what a lovely idea!

48C and have just found bras from Fifty Plus that fit perfectly. Can't wear undersized these support well. So glad I have found them

I am not one of the well endowed when it comes to boobs.Not worth spending time and money on.
In the winter my layers of clothing hide everything but for warmer months I have a front fastening bra that I can play around with to give what I do have some comfort
Addition of some padding works wonders.

I don't have a bra problem but I can see it is a problem. I do long for the days when I didn't need a bra though- lovely freedom.

Same problem experienced by most of you with straps falling off, not good support etc.
Until I found these on Amazon:
Delimira Women's Front Closure Full Coverage Underwire Non Padded Racerback Bra

To my mind the perfect bra, I now wont use anything else.

I'm a fan of the Genie type bra too. Don't even notice I'm wearing one.

Am really puzzled by these posts.
Admittedly I stick to one make ,design and size as they fit me perfectly -Fantasie Elodie 36DD(which I suppose is a fairly standard size) - but I think I would have to persevere until I found one. I have been measured by assistants in various stores and they inevitably come up with the above so I've given up on anything else .I can usually get them more cheaply online and they do a few nice colours .I'm not into matching pants .

I hate bras too but found the Genie type did not offer enough support for my 40d size.Have now found some excellent vests with a formed bra inside that do the job perfectly and are very comfy-can be worn under clothes or just as a vest top in summer.They are from M&Co and would recommend to larger ladies who just don't get support from normal "comfort" bras.

I am 32A. Might as well not bother. A nightmare to find a bra that small and then expensive when I do. Then the damn things bite into me. Grr!

I bought some bra extenders from ebay. They do a variety of hook numbers and colours. As my weight fluctuates I find them very handy when I've put on extra pounds.

Some years ago, having got so fed up with bras, I went to Rigby and Peller (who sort out the Queen). The assistant explained that they do not use a measuring tape but asses one by sight. The result was a 34H bra ,which was expensive but made me look as if I had 2 flying frisbees strapped to my chest. This was fine in winter under a jumper but a 'no,no' for summer. My latest very comfortable bra is a £6+ from Tesco!
Has anyone a remedy for a nasty rash which often recurs under my boobs? Doc gave me Dacktarin which was not much help so I now have some bra-less days- not a good look!

Ah Blodwen I do have a handy tip once your rash is gone!

This was told to me by a gnarled military man back from a sandy hot spot.

Areas like under your bust, creases in your groin etc are perfect for bacteria . It's the combination of heat and moistness. He recommended a shower, dry properly then use one of the stick type 24 hr deodorant sparingly in any creases including under the bust.

It keeps those areas perfectly dry for at least 48 hours . Perfect dryness means no breeding grounds for the bacteria that makes you sore. My daughter has tried this on the inside of the top of her thighs that sometimes chaffed in the summer. Works a treat

I meant to add we've tried the Sure and Dove varieties. They are more expensive than an ordinary stick but last ages ages .

M&S "vests/strappy tops" with built in support (proper cups not bandeau) with adjustable straps, are brilliant, comfortable , give a good shape ....and I am large busted! I am a size 12-14 but buying size 16 vest ensures cups are right size. These really are a revelation for me, discovered this season!

I'm with Esspee. Very, very rarely wear a bra. Can't see the point as I sit around at home most of the time!

Can't get on with underwires at all, seriously uncomfortable. But Berlei non-slip, once I have removed the stiffeners down the sides, are super comfortable, give a really good outline, I have had work colleagues stop me and ask what bra I am wearing, which was astonishing!

If you are not big busted, just wear a camisole.
I only wear a bra if I'm wearing something thin or flimsy or see through.
You can get camisoles with padded bra insets as well.
Much more comfy than a full,bra.

I buy some bras from asda,no hooks,just soft material that has padded inserts you can remove if not wanted,pull over the head,

Afternoon all, re: Bras digging in or worse; I've tried finding AAhh bras and at last have
on QVC BUT quite expensive and no sizing as I know it. I'm a 34f or 36e. How does that translate to M or L in aahh bras? Probably aren't made in my size. Could try hammocks I suppose. Any help/advice gratefully received. My first post so would welcome any reply. Best to all

So good to hear I'm not alone in this! Wish I had a solution other than removing the dreaded things as soon as possible!

I thought Naneee that you chose your AhhBras by t shirt size .

Ladies have you tried Bravissamo? Unfortunately, I've got Big boobs but Bravissamo are fantastic at finding the best fitting bra.

Thank you NanaandGrampy. On my shopping list for tomorrow -- Sure or Dove.

I agree with all the comments about how uncomfortable bras are now I'm in my seventies. I don't wear one if I'm not going out. My problem is that I don't have particularly large nipples but unless the bra is padded, they show through my clothes. I grew up in a time when it was indecent to show nipples (my Mum taught me to put cotton-wool in my bra to hide them). So I can't get over the idea that other women will think me a slut if they show.