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To be honest I've picked up a bad habit

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Teetime Sun 03-Dec-17 14:48:06

I seem to be saying' to be honest' before very ordinary statements and as I am honest why am I saying this. I am working to eradicate this. Anyone else noticed an annoying habit/cliché in themselves that needs weaning

BBbevan Mon 04-Dec-17 13:08:30

Jalima1108 What is disgusting?

annerogers Mon 04-Dec-17 13:27:32

My ex husband used to say 'With the greatest respect..' when he blatantly wasn't being at all respectful

Elenkalubleton Mon 04-Dec-17 13:27:46

I hate "see you later" when your just leaving a shop from an assistant who you probably won't see again,also "Take Care" when they don't give a f---k .(alright from friends)

DaisyL Mon 04-Dec-17 13:40:30

I find it very disconcerting when people ask me 'What are you up to today?' - usually asked by junior in the hairdressers or girl at the checkout in supermarket - The answer is usually not much, but not always appropriate to discuss what you're actually doing i.e. mammogram! Also the phrase reminds me of asking child with guilty face 'What have you been up to?'

adaunas Mon 04-Dec-17 13:54:24

Mine was "I have to say", even when I certainly didn't have to say anything. It took me ages to stop that. I'm now working on "so".

Direne3 Mon 04-Dec-17 14:18:52

I find myself saying 'Bye love' at the end of family phone conversations - hate it, it's 'so not me' (that's another one). Has anyone else got in the habit of counting how many times the weather forecaster on BBC says 'but'?

Legs55 Mon 04-Dec-17 14:30:57

I address everybody as love, Yorkshire upbringing, I know it annoys some people but at 62 I doubt I'll change.

Not to bad living in Devon as they do tend to address women as "my Lover" no I'm not or "my Lovely" which I like, used in Somerset a lot as well.

Hipsy Mon 04-Dec-17 15:29:08

If I have any minor news or gossip to impart to OH I find myself starting the tale with "Guess what?"
How I would hate to hang around waiting for him to guess.
Not that he would!

Lupin Mon 04-Dec-17 15:45:22

Politicians who use the phrase "Let me say this..."
Property show clichés - Light and airy. We want to keep alpacas. A big dine-in kitchen with an island. ( It's envy with the latter )
Property show euphamisms - Cosy for too small. Potential - for someone else.
As for me - Not to worry - when clearly I should.

lesley4357 Mon 04-Dec-17 16:02:58

Yes! Friends of mine start virtually every sentence with "to be honest with you..." I always feel like saying "Do you usually lie to me then?"

Jalima1108 Mon 04-Dec-17 16:05:33

Jalima1108 What is disgusting?

It's another saying from Gavin and Stacy BBevan!

'That's disgusting that is'
which I have heard people use jokingly (best said by younger friends in an authentic Welsh accent)

Purpledaffodil Mon 04-Dec-17 16:08:14

Friend of DH tacks “As it were” on to most sentences. Very irritating as it were. ?

Jalima1108 Mon 04-Dec-17 16:11:44

Actually BBevan, it's not a bad habit it's quite funny if not overdone!

Tiggersuki Mon 04-Dec-17 16:24:44

I don't say it unless it's true but I hate it when people in shops say see you later when you leave....there have been times when I expect half a dozen such folks to turn up later! It is meaningless.

MissAdventure Mon 04-Dec-17 16:26:55

I think I say "i'll see you later" even though I know I won't. I don't know why I say it!

annifrance Mon 04-Dec-17 16:27:01

So, like it's when I say bless when, you know, I'm an aetheist.

Ruby41 Mon 04-Dec-17 17:01:42

All conversations prefaced by 'D'you know what?' - I suppose a variant of 'Guess what?' and an attention-seeking ploy. I don't think I've been guilty of this one!

BBbevan Mon 04-Dec-17 17:03:28

I never implied it was a bad habit. Jalima Just that everyone in S Wales especially says it. And if Teetime had been there, that is where she may have picked up ' to be honest with you ' . ?

Jalima1108 Mon 04-Dec-17 17:06:02

Tidy!
grin

jenwren Mon 04-Dec-17 18:00:06

Amazing which started with David Beckham I think grrr

BBbevan Mon 04-Dec-17 18:15:47

Diolch Jalima

Aepgirl Mon 04-Dec-17 18:29:17

It's clearly.........

grannyticktock Mon 04-Dec-17 18:38:18

Incredible!
I once heard a politician on the radio claiming that their party had some "incredible policies".
I would have been more impressed if their policies had been credible.

Jalima1108 Mon 04-Dec-17 19:15:33

DGD taught me that BBbevan
smile

nannyof4 Mon 04-Dec-17 19:50:15

Mine is Hey ho