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To be honest I've picked up a bad habit

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Teetime Sun 03-Dec-17 14:48:06

I seem to be saying' to be honest' before very ordinary statements and as I am honest why am I saying this. I am working to eradicate this. Anyone else noticed an annoying habit/cliché in themselves that needs weaning

Teddy111 Mon 04-Dec-17 10:35:58

Chewbacca,I agree,I find it very irritating.Nearly every person on T.V starts speaking by saying, So.

Jalima1108 Mon 04-Dec-17 10:40:16

my DD1 says Really? (as a rhetorical question) ALL THE TIME
Granny23 My DD says 'Really?' very earnestly to people who are coming out with a load of bullshit whoppers
grin
It's as much as I can do to keep a straight face.

AllTheLs Mon 04-Dec-17 10:40:40

Chewbacca, I agree entirely. What is it with 'so' beginning every sentence? It's everywhere - TV presenters (Countryfile one of the worst offenders), authors, academics, schoolchildren, teachers.... I could go on for ever. Where did it come from? Is it an Americanism that has taken off over here? Will it ever go away? Or is it now in the English language for good? It annoys me SO much - see that's where it's meant to be - in the middle of a sentence, not at the beginning - Grrrrr!!

Jalima1108 Mon 04-Dec-17 10:43:56

lemongrove
'That's disgusting that is' is another Nessa saying I think!

Bellanonna Mon 04-Dec-17 10:49:34

Even toddlers have their overworked phrases, “It’s not fair” being the most common.

lemongrove Mon 04-Dec-17 10:54:56

Oh yes Jalima grin and another Nessa saying ...crackin’

kazzer Mon 04-Dec-17 11:04:20

"Howya doin" annoyed me so much I asked the builder "how am I doing what?"!!!

kazzer Mon 04-Dec-17 11:08:16

Oh and "how are you" to be told "good", I was not enquiring as to their behaviour but their health!

Teetime Mon 04-Dec-17 11:15:08

I used to have lunch fairly regularly with some friends where I lived before and DH would tell anyone who phoned or wanted me that I was out with the Actually Club.

Rosieroe Mon 04-Dec-17 11:38:41

As someone from Northern Ireland I have the habit of calling everything “wee”. I laughed when I rang to book theatre tickets in Belfast and was asked what my wee name was, and my wee phone number, did I have a wee card, then to give her the wee number etc. Then since then I have noticed my own tendency to use “wee”: “wee cup of tea”, “wee bun”, “wee dote (a darling)”, leaving a “wee message”, sending a “wee card”, ad infinitum. I’m not sure if it’s a bad habit or not but it’s so ingrained I doubt if I’ll ever be able to stop.

Camelotclub Mon 04-Dec-17 11:42:33

My husband says "As I say..." when he patently doesn't!

Camelotclub Mon 04-Dec-17 11:44:04

Rosieroe
Don't change, I love an Irish accent! Especially the girl in 'Motherland' (Eire, I know) who mentions someone 'acting the giddy goat'!

Rosieroe Mon 04-Dec-17 12:00:11

Camelot ??

Gemmag Mon 04-Dec-17 12:05:20

Son sticking his head round the door saying, Allright?
and a husband who says ‘exactly’ when he can’t think of anything better to say.
Me-for goodness sake?

inishowen Mon 04-Dec-17 12:15:33

I find myself doing a little laugh at the end of a sentence. I seem to do it when a stranger talks to me, like I'm trying to appear really pleasant. I must stop it!!

Jalima1108 Mon 04-Dec-17 12:23:20

In the days when doors were left open for visitors to just come in, my aunt used to come round, knock and say 'It's only me' as she came in. That used to annoy my mother grin

Lilyflower Mon 04-Dec-17 12:30:09

I had a friend who said, 'You know what I mean?' after every (somewhat banal) statement. I felt like saying, 'Of course I know what you mean. An amoeba would understand that.' However, I knew the question was rhetorical and a verbal tic. Also, that my own conversation probably wouldn't bear much examination either!

WilmaKnickersfit Mon 04-Dec-17 12:39:37

Coconut 'actually' is my bad habit right now. I just don't seem to be able to stop saying it! tchgrin

Willow500 Mon 04-Dec-17 12:40:35

Oh dear - basically I actually seem to say many of these but to be fair as I'm on my own most of the time so no one hears it - much. My husband seems to have started say etc etc all the time!

Reevangel Mon 04-Dec-17 12:41:03

HaHaHa I do the same!!

keffie Mon 04-Dec-17 12:42:34

"You know" after every sentence is my pet peeve! Some people use it after every few words. It drives me crazy.

I was listening to someone talking recently at a meeting. They used this phrase 110 times in 15-20 minutes.

Yes I did count the use of cos I was being anal. I find them boring in a speaker session. I knew they used this phrase alot so decided to count the use of. It drove me even more mad. Yes my fault I know.

There are others however "you know" is the worst

Kim19 Mon 04-Dec-17 12:43:17

My cringe is 'life's too short'. Ugh!

Bellanonna Mon 04-Dec-17 12:53:32

Life’s too short to be worrying so much. I’m sure we all use the cited phrases from time to time, or more frequently, often to be noticed in our posts. It doesn’t really bother me and I probably don’t even notice.

vintage1950 Mon 04-Dec-17 12:59:00

My gripe is 'I don't blame you' about something perfectly harmless, like having a hot bath.
Another is the expression 'in terms' - not 'in terms of' - which I often hear on the news on Radio 4, as in 'He stated, in terms....' I think it means 'explicitly'. I can't find it on Google. John Humphrys says it.

winifred01 Mon 04-Dec-17 13:00:57

A neighbour, after she had been to the shops , would say I have invested in some streaky bacon,never just bought it!