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lovingit Sun 22-Apr-18 20:56:41

My son and his family are going to India for Christmas and as my dil knows I have always wanted to go he face timed me and asked if I wanted to join them. I was reluctant to agree straight away as it was Christmas and I knew it would be difficult to have my dog and horse looked after.
Thinking it over I decided I would regret it if I didn't go so facetimed my darling son to tell him.His response has had me chuckling all week "Great ,you must do it whilst you can remember it and you know you will be dead in 15 years
.Cheeky sod but he's probably right!

Jalima1108 Sun 22-Apr-18 21:09:10

But he may be wrong!

Go and enjoy yourself smile

lemongrove Sun 22-Apr-18 21:21:55

Ah well, I would settle for 15 years.grin
Go and enjoy your trip.

Bathsheba Sun 22-Apr-18 21:45:51

Oh I hope I’ve got 15 years left! I’d see all my grandchildren grow up ❤️.
Pleased for you - have a lovely C*******s smile

Shazmo24 Mon 23-Apr-18 10:22:19

Go & enjoy! If you want to have someone to look after your pooch & horse look at housesit match or trusted housesitters

Panache Mon 23-Apr-18 10:26:21

.............and if you want a companion I put myself forward!!
Go and enjoy.
We shall be looking forward to hearing of your trip though.

AlieOxon Mon 23-Apr-18 10:32:53

My sister and partner have just come back from China.....they said beforehand they were going while they could.
Me, I want to go to Dublin....have started mentioning it to my sister.....hopefully.....can I do it? I'm only nine years older than her!

GreenGran78 Mon 23-Apr-18 10:51:51

Alie, if your sister won’t go, why not go by yourself? There are lots of travel companies, such as Shearings, who specialise in such trips. I have been on a few, and most of the people are very friendly to lone travellers. I quite like the freedom to please myself, or join others, as the mood takes me. There are usually some day trips to nearby places of interest included in the price as well.
Do you have any local groups, such as U3A, who organise holidays together? That would be another alternative.

mabon1 Mon 23-Apr-18 11:21:01

Just go

Ellie Anne Mon 23-Apr-18 11:32:23

So nice that they thought of you and invited you. I’d definitely go.

annodomini Mon 23-Apr-18 11:32:56

Alie, Dublin sounds the kind of place where it would be fun to be a solo traveller - after all, they speak English and drive on the left. I've 'done' Paris on my own twice (though not very recently) and thoroughly enjoyed finding my way around on foot and by Metro, practising my French, eating what, where and when it suited me - doing exactly what I wanted. Not so easy now as my knees object to walking.

B9exchange Mon 23-Apr-18 11:44:45

Definitely go, good time to go as not so hot. Do read up before you go, will be a culture shock (depending on where you stay of course) but you will never regret it. My son got married in India (full Indian wedding in very remote village) to please his MiL and the memories will stay with us forever.
Get your son to do your visa for you, has to be done online, and you have to be adept at shrinking pdfs and photos!

lovingit Mon 23-Apr-18 12:30:29

At 67 I,m just beginning to notice the slowing down but his remark has got me thinking that I haven't got that many years left to do all the stuff I want. I am the world's best at procrastination but can't be putting things off anymore now .Having a mad dog and a horse it's not easy to get away although I do manage to go away a lot in summer when my horse is out .
India here \I come..

Purplepoppies Mon 23-Apr-18 13:18:05

There are boarding kennels that will look after your pooch lovingit. Book in plenty of time though! I'm sure you have a horsey friend who can horse sit too?
India sounds AMAZING!!! Have a fab time ?

dogsmother Mon 23-Apr-18 13:20:38

Fantastic! Reaping the benefits of wonderful offspring ?

newnanny Mon 23-Apr-18 14:39:00

You may have much longer left. Just go and enjoy. Take loads of photos. Tease him back. Tell him you will enjoy spending his inheritance.

grandtanteJE65 Mon 23-Apr-18 15:21:42

I am green with envy! Hope you have a really lovely time and t hat we (I'm 66) have more than 15 years left.

Your vet may be able to put you in touch with a reliable person who can look after your horse and dog.

Farmor15 Mon 23-Apr-18 15:29:01

India for Christmas is great, especially if you want to avoid all the fuss here. In most places it’s just an ordinary day, though you may see a few fake trees and tinsel around.

Hope your son is planning to be somewhere near the sea on 25th as it’s lovely to go for a dip in warm water on Christmas Day and make everyone at home jealous smile

sarahellenwhitney Mon 23-Apr-18 15:57:06

lovingit
67 and slowing down ??? isn't 67 the new 57.? 50 the new 40?

LuckyFour Mon 23-Apr-18 16:18:47

My understanding is that 70 is the new 50,

I've been to India twice and loved it. I'd go back at the drop of a hat. Accept everything you see with generosity, it's mad but so, so very exciting.

micmc47 Mon 23-Apr-18 16:47:20

How lovely that they want to share the experience with you. Get out there, enjoy, and count your blessings. :-)

DanniRae Mon 23-Apr-18 17:02:18

Wow! Christmas in India - it sounds amazing.
My precious son teases me if I do anything daft and informs me that he has me booked into "Shady Pines" Nursing Home for whenever I need it. (At least I think he is joking!!) hmm

Catterygirl Mon 23-Apr-18 21:40:55

That's what is called a son who knows you best of all. He was teasing you.

DanniRae Tue 24-Apr-18 08:21:32

Thank you Catterygirl - it was so good of you to post that message. I really appreciated it!! smile

lovingit Tue 24-Apr-18 09:39:24

67 may be the new 50 but it's a damn sight harder to carry 20k bags of feed or shavings and the days of running up the muckheap with a full barrow have definitely gone!!