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Homemade Christmas gifts - good or bad?

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crystaltipps Sat 22-Sept-18 17:51:45

I think homemade is good when it’s something from a friend whose a talented artist or craft person and they give you something beautifully made that you will definitely want. Or maybe something from a child/ grandchild made especially for you.
Not good- something made by a child you aren’t related to which is a bit rubbish or maybe homemade sweets like peppermint creams you know will be horrible and will throw away. I know some will say you should accept anything with a smile and I do, but you’ve got to admit some are discreetly binned or down the charity shop in January. I must admit I do make homemade things myself but hopefully things I know people will use/ enjoy. What is your view of homemade gifts? What to avoid?

Primrose53 Fri 01-Dec-23 10:33:17

Romola

You have made me feel slightly nervous about the fact that I knit hats, gloves, scarves for all and sundry. And my younger relatives live in jumpers I've made, but not teenage boys except one, who feels the cold.
I know they wear them all the time - unless they put them on specially for WhatsApp video calls.

Take a look at what the trendy male shops have in stock and it’s all hunky, chunky cabled jumpers that look like handknits. Same with lovely hats, gloves and scarves.
Look at the colours they are in and you won’t go far wrong. I am sure they will love them.

Witzend Fri 01-Dec-23 09:58:40

Norah

This came today. With 'Mum, please paint this, for me for Christmas, for over the our fire.'

So, I'll attempt...

How lovely to be able to do any such thing! Do please post a pic when it’s finished!
I couldn’t do that if my entire family’s lives depended on it.
For Art, my school report was invariably just one word - ‘Weak’.

JackyB Fri 01-Dec-23 09:50:15

I have been furiously crocheting Christmas baubles all week to pad out the little Advent packs I am making for my DGC (and single son). They don't know if they're perfect or not and, if they don't throw them away, they'll only come out for a few weeks around Christmas each year, so I shall have no compunction sending them. They're a great stashbuster. Plenty of patterns out there and they're quickly done.

NotSpaghetti Thu 30-Nov-23 16:55:33

grandmalynn

I just knitted some for my 9 y/0 grandson. do I bin them? or shall I burn them.

No! They may love them! ❤️

karmalady Thu 30-Nov-23 16:47:30

I once threw a jar of hm crabapple jelly out, I was given it by a neighbour but being a jam maker myself, I knew that it had not been properly preserved, the lid was loose. Properly preserved, the lids would have gone pop and there would be a dent, showing that a vacuum had formed

I am very fussy about hygiene, bad hygiene in a kitchen can lead to very serious food posoning

AreWeThereYet Thu 30-Nov-23 16:41:12

Romola

You have made me feel slightly nervous about the fact that I knit hats, gloves, scarves for all and sundry. And my younger relatives live in jumpers I've made, but not teenage boys except one, who feels the cold.
I know they wear them all the time - unless they put them on specially for WhatsApp video calls.

There's a huge difference between knitting with a specific person in mind, using colours, patterns and sizings that are suitable for them, and knitting loads of stuff and offloading it onto any one that comes to mind. I'm sure your garments are very much appreciated.

MiL was a very clever knitter. She knitted lots of jumpers for MrA and myself. Sadly although they were beautifully knitted and she had taken a lot of care over them they were usually more suited to a 60 year old in the 1950s than a 20/30 year old the 1980/90s. They were still safely stored away until about 2 years ago, worn once.

karmalady Thu 30-Nov-23 16:36:22

My AC still love hand knitted socks

karmalady Thu 30-Nov-23 16:35:00

I used to make gifts for my children, when they were small, they were very happy with them and also with the wooden toys that my husband made. We stopped pre-teen age

I used to make my husband eg a flannel shirt, he wore it so much that I had to turn the collar to give it a new lease of life. He only got hand made from time to time and particularly in the early years, it also made christmas cheaper and more meaningful

Norah Thu 30-Nov-23 16:23:53

grandmalynn

I just knitted some for my 9 y/0 grandson. do I bin them? or shall I burn them.

Lovely gift, of course you shouldn't bin them.

Norah Thu 30-Nov-23 16:22:03

This came today. With 'Mum, please paint this, for me for Christmas, for over the our fire.'

So, I'll attempt...

grandmalynn Thu 30-Nov-23 10:57:22

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Witzend Thu 30-Nov-23 10:56:53

Romola

You have made me feel slightly nervous about the fact that I knit hats, gloves, scarves for all and sundry. And my younger relatives live in jumpers I've made, but not teenage boys except one, who feels the cold.
I know they wear them all the time - unless they put them on specially for WhatsApp video calls.

I’m sure yours are lovely and very much appreciated!

Can’t say the same for a jumper dh’s old aunt once knitted for him. She had plenty of money but was as tight as they come, and had evidently found one of those bargain huge balls of yarn somewhere, in a sort of very pale blue-ish green, that TBH I’d have hesitated to use even for a baby.
And dh has very conventional tastes!
It was in some weird pattern, too.

She was an avid knitter but for herself it was nothing but the best, Jaeger mohair, etc! I was once present when she quibbled with the wool shop assistant over the odd 12p on a £12.12p bill - and this was decades ago.

I forget what we did with it - probably a charity shop - he certainly never wore it.

Witzend Thu 30-Nov-23 10:46:01

Norah

We made cheese straws, by the 1000s, for Christmas gifts.

Seem to go down well, people love receiving our cheese straws.

I’ve given these, too - my very very cheesy ones - and I’ve had requests for them for various family get-togethers apart from Christmas. No matter how many I make, they always go.

NotSpaghetti Wed 29-Nov-23 18:31:19

Three of my grandsons put in "orders" for specific jumpers and other knitted items with their other grandmother! The others are less interested.

Callistemon21 Wed 29-Nov-23 18:03:52

Romola

You have made me feel slightly nervous about the fact that I knit hats, gloves, scarves for all and sundry. And my younger relatives live in jumpers I've made, but not teenage boys except one, who feels the cold.
I know they wear them all the time - unless they put them on specially for WhatsApp video calls.

They'll be glad of them - it's going to get very cold!

Callistemon21 Wed 29-Nov-23 18:02:54

Norah

Callistemon21

Norah

NotSpaghetti

Norah

I make jams, chutney, spice blends and I also paint.

My sign is below blue tape.

What do you mean, about your sign pleaae Norah?

I thought to cover my name (sign), the year and my daughter's name with painter tape - for privacy of me and my family.

Do you watch Bob Ross, *Norah?
His style is quite fascinating, and I wondered if you followed him..
I ought to try it, but haven't painted for years and did prefer watercolours in the end, not oils or acrylics.
A friend of mine used to paint in oils, some of her work was exhibited.

No, I follow my pictures taken on holiday.

I prefer acrylic, watercolour, oil, and colouring old etchings.

Yes, I've done that, take photos then paint them
I really should start again.

Romola Wed 29-Nov-23 17:16:39

You have made me feel slightly nervous about the fact that I knit hats, gloves, scarves for all and sundry. And my younger relatives live in jumpers I've made, but not teenage boys except one, who feels the cold.
I know they wear them all the time - unless they put them on specially for WhatsApp video calls.

NotSpaghetti Wed 29-Nov-23 15:50:31

Aldom grin

It's a very sparkling and moody piece Norah - thank you for sharing!

As an aside, I work from photos too for some pieces. I think it can be helpful - if you can't stay in one spot to draw for example. I take ideas from my images too.

Norah Wed 29-Nov-23 15:40:42

Callistemon21

Norah

NotSpaghetti

Norah

I make jams, chutney, spice blends and I also paint.

My sign is below blue tape.

What do you mean, about your sign pleaae Norah?

I thought to cover my name (sign), the year and my daughter's name with painter tape - for privacy of me and my family.

Do you watch Bob Ross, *Norah?
His style is quite fascinating, and I wondered if you followed him..
I ought to try it, but haven't painted for years and did prefer watercolours in the end, not oils or acrylics.
A friend of mine used to paint in oils, some of her work was exhibited.

No, I follow my pictures taken on holiday.

I prefer acrylic, watercolour, oil, and colouring old etchings.

Aldom Wed 29-Nov-23 15:32:20

NotSpaghetti

Norah - sometimes I'm very stupid.🙄
I googled "below blue tape" in case you had a website or Instagram or similar called "below blue tape". Lots of artists have studios with funny names too!
My husband would say "only you!"🤣

It's not just you though Notspaghetti I'm another who spent rather a lot of time on Google this morning looking up Under blue tape. grin. grin

Callistemon21 Wed 29-Nov-23 15:12:13

Norah

NotSpaghetti

Norah

I make jams, chutney, spice blends and I also paint.

My sign is below blue tape.

What do you mean, about your sign pleaae Norah?

I thought to cover my name (sign), the year and my daughter's name with painter tape - for privacy of me and my family.

Do you watch Bob Ross, *Norah?
His style is quite fascinating, and I wondered if you followed him..
I ought to try it, but haven't painted for years and did prefer watercolours in the end, not oils or acrylics.
A friend of mine used to paint in oils, some of her work was exhibited.

NotSpaghetti Wed 29-Nov-23 14:33:10

Norah - sometimes I'm very stupid.🙄
I googled "below blue tape" in case you had a website or Instagram or similar called "below blue tape". Lots of artists have studios with funny names too!
My husband would say "only you!"🤣

M0nica Wed 29-Nov-23 13:54:16

Depends whaat it is, who it is for and how well made it is.

Norah Wed 29-Nov-23 13:47:17

NotSpaghetti

Norah

I make jams, chutney, spice blends and I also paint.

My sign is below blue tape.

What do you mean, about your sign pleaae Norah?

I thought to cover my name (sign), the year and my daughter's name with painter tape - for privacy of me and my family.

westendgirl Wed 29-Nov-23 08:52:55

I love getting hand made gifts. If anyone bothers about you enough to spend time ( and money, as kits, wool are not cheap these days ) then I think such gifts should be appreciated.
If you dont like them then please tell the maker and they can spend their time , and money on someone else.