Need a hug!

A great big hug from me too. I know exactly how you feel as you are repeating what I said to someone last week. I lost my husband just over 2yrs ago and miss his hugs which nothing can replace. It's not about being comfortable but about being loved. Take care xx

A BIG hug from me to you

Time to think about a 'boyfriend'! There are some really lovely men (in a similar situation to yourself) out there. You are too young not to have the cuddle you crave. It will take a little nerve but start by some modest flirting, nothing more than being just a tad more friendly...and ask questions. Men love being asked about themselves!

I think I personally would prefer to make friends by joining clubs classes etc and if a special friendship develops with someone take it from there. I wouldn't want to feel needy or dependent on someone. But that's just me.?

I miss a man cuddle.
I dont miss having to make sure it stays at 'just a cuddle'

Good point MissAdventure! ?

Hello everyone!
I am new to this website and wasn't too sure where to post this message. I am married with a lovely paramedic husband, a 6 year old boy and a 9 year old girl. My background is in teaching. My husband has no parents and although I do, mine spend most of their time holidaying abroad. We would dearly love to 'adopt a grandma or grandparents'. We could so do with some support right now, especially as my leg is in a plaster cast!
Would anyone like to adopt a family who has lots of love and cuddles to offer in return (that would benefit everyone!!). I would love to have an extended family. I'm sure an entrepreneur could sort out a website to help match families and older people!
We live in Rushden, Northamptonshire.
Look forward to hear from anyone who would like to get in touch!
Best wishes Kate x

Dear Kate......I wish we lived closer together (I am in Glos...) My husband died two years ago, I have recently retired, and I have time and love to spare. My own family could do with an injection of fresh perspectives as well......ummmm....you have given me food for thought......BBx

Thank you for your kind words!!

Loneliness probably also encompasses lack of human contact meaning no hugs. I only said to my husband recently that I would love to be a ‘grannie’ to maybe a single parent who struggles. I thought for some time that Gransnet could be a way of getting lonely people together. If you say where you live you would maybe get a response and start by emailing. Having said all that am hoping that I haven’t opened a can of worms re ‘safety’ online. ?

Well if there are any lovely people out there who want to 'adopt' my family - just let me know any perhaps we can exchange some details. I think we all do need to be careful about 'safety online'. Tricky, isn't it!!

Here's a HUG for you! Remember, it's not bad to talk and ask someone's help when needed. You may also want to have a pet with you that can be with you anytime.