Earlier in the week gilly mentioned that she had a nasty pm and, over the years, I have had a few passive aggressive ones too. I doubt we are the only ones.
My inclination is to 'call out' the sender on the threads - would that be wrong?
To my mind these are bullying messages and we should stand up to bullies but what does anyone else think?
Who does a pm belong to? The sender or the recipient?
I never had a PM from a Tom, Dick or Harry but did have a couple from Blue John, I got the impression he thought we could meet up for a good time as he lived only a few miles from me ?
I have only had a few PMs and they have all, without exception, been kind, helpful and supportive. I am however, intrigued about who reported you Gilly, I remember the 'bloody' episode, was rather funny to be honest, but I am now going to spend the rest of the day trying to work out who it was......
Oh I am sorry Kitty I was really joking about not being in the ‘know’ ??I wasn’t expecting anyone to break confidences Sorry if you felt put in a bad position I m just a nosy old so and so Anyway no one should ever send nasty pm s I ve never had one but if I did I d report it and get rid of it block the sender And send them off to sit in the corner with Tom
Oh yeah, petra, I figured out who all of you are talking about. ? I agree, she never has anything pleasant to say.. I won't "name and shame" though. She may just have a tough life. However, that doesn't give her the right to be nasty. Blocking is best, I think.
I have received a couple unpleasant PMs ...but then as I have also managed to inadvertently put myself in the firing line on a couple of threads recently, I expect it is par for the course! Never heard from Tom though! I feel quite neglected!
I hate to tell her I was told last week I can still drive! I am not racing around the M25, I no longer drive in dusk and dark and nowadays I drive locally for convenience, not that it was any of her business!