Oh I am not needy, but very independent with a life of my own. Nor am I pestering him. I don't nag anyone, I don't believe in it.
But I see his younger brother monthly either here or I take him out so it only seems fair for me to offer the 19 year old the same...and my son encourages me to, saying GS needs to get off the play station! I'm trying not to show favouritism to the youngest.
There is a lot more to this, he has been quite rude/dismissive to me [and other adults in the family] several times....just teenage stuff I suppose. And before the DIL issue. I just wait for him to mature a bit more. If he doesn't want to see me that's ok but I am just puzzled as to why he says he wants to, then silence.
My son doesn't like that GS is being distant with me and marches him round on my birthday and Christmas...and now and then asks me to ask GS over or out...so I do.
I fully realise he is now an adult with his own life, we have been aware of this for a long time. Just wondering how it translates into Christmas. I may compromise, give a small voucher and/or some beers.
Thanks for the advice, views and gift/card ideas from helpful posters.
Old sayings with a theme 2 ( continuing *nanna8*'s thread)
Last weekend, in Rutland, the first statue in Britain of the late Elizabeth II was unveiled.