Whew, home. Wishing 2019 is either better than or not as bad as expected. (Does that make sense?
anno. Travel safely, take a lot of photos and may I say - make notes - even as you go along when you are talking family stories. I didn’t do that when I should have, thinking I would remember the details. Try perhaps to have some video and your sister’s voice on it. It doesn’t matter if you don’t look at it for years or even ever but if you don’t have it you will not have the choice. I hope you make some memories to treasure.
annsixty when my mum was in the care home, she liked being read to although she often nodded off, but it was a sign of being relaxed. I was advised by the staff to play music and also to just sit and read and not feel that I had to be “entertaining”. As there was WiFi I could do my emails, bills etc while she was snoozing. I also used to knit and organise her plants. I became friends with other visitors and we supported each other. Thinking of you both.
soop thank you so much for welcoming me here. You do a lot of ironing so I imagine you as chic and organised. I think I might be little slobby as I only iron my DH’s shirts.
To all others with difficulties, remember to try and do something every day that you really enjoy even if only for 20 minutes.
Well even here in freezing Scotland there are some green tips of snowdrops pushing through iron hard ground as a reminder that spring will come even though we are still in the depths of winter.
I missed the free booze but as it is New Year I am on my annual dose of Iron Bru “made in Scotland from girders”. I have left a whole crate full - beware!!!! It makes you hyper and doesn’t wash out if you spill it but is very good for hangovers (so I am told).