I am needing some advice
Have any of you GN's come across so many clicky people, and how did you handle it?
I am a member of a gym and have been for 3 years, I like to do Ballroom and Latin dance to keep fit and yoga
The social life within this group is good and I do get involved when I can, but lately I find quite a few of the ladies and a couple of men have become so clicky, and today after the class we all sat in the lounge and it was like I wasn't there, there about 11 of us and they all sat chatting in pairs and It was as if I wasn't there, I felt so uncomfortable and just played with my phone.
None of the ladies I get on well with were there. These are people I have socialised with on loads of occasions and I feel so hurt, it isn't as if we are children, we are grown adults
One lady asked my if I was ok,and I should have asked if was invisible but No didn't like to draw attention to myself
I had a issue with my brother in law before Xmas and he isn't speaking to me atm, not that I really care. But this has rocked things between me and my sister, so I am feeling quite on my own atm.
All my family live in America and Australia (daughters and grandchildren) so I don't have that close family around me? My husband is 15 years older than me (63 and 78)
I get so low about it. As if I was to lose him, I would be on my own
Silent treatment - son
Caught in the act - neighbours
How to say it - 'no'