Yes ....my husband hardly gives his 11 year old grandson or his 7 year old granddaughter a sideways glance! He’s an awful grandfather . They also know this. When they receive Xmas or birthday presents from ‘us’ ... which I have bought wrapped and paid for they are videod by their parents saying ‘thank you’ to grandad! My grandson will say it quite readily.... my 7 year old granddaughter cannot and will not say it!! She would rather have the present taken away as ‘punishment’. My grandson is easy going and amiable and I think makes ‘exvuses’ for grandad in his own mind. My granddaughter has a much more robust mind and knows a thorough-going arse when she she’s on! Clever girl that and I admire her for it!
Do you try to keep childcare (fairly) equal between your grandchildren?