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BlueSapphire Mon 11-Mar-19 08:18:40

Very wise words.

Harris27 Mon 11-Mar-19 08:08:14

Ive always been a worrier and my dad used to say "putyour head on the pillow and sleep forget today's worries". He was a great sleeper and hard worker as I think about him now as I lie awake he would be repeating that to me!

megan123 Mon 11-Mar-19 08:01:20

Good to read gq. If I wake in the night, which I frequently do, I worry about all sorts of things, that in the light of day seem quite ridiculous.

kittylester Mon 11-Mar-19 07:37:41

Thank you gq. I don't think that it's really saying 'don't worry' but seeing the small things can ease the worries a little.

I agree with your son bradfordlass.

annep1 Mon 11-Mar-19 03:03:35

Thanks for that Grannyqueenie I too have worried needlessly all my life. Worry achieves nothing good. I shall print this off.

BradfordLass72 Mon 11-Mar-19 00:21:24

I'm a worrier from way back and was once advised to make a list of what worried me and then come back, maybe a year later, to see if any of it eventuated.

Some did, some didn't but I understood that none of it changed or improved through my worrying.

Didn't stop me though, I'm still a worrier but it doesn't rule my life or stop me taking action when I can.

My son says 'Worrying is only caring by another name'.

gillybob Sun 10-Mar-19 23:13:12

Thank you for that grannyqueenie I need to print it out and put it above my desk in “that place” , in my handbag, my bedside cabinet drawer, under my pillow, in the car and everywhere else where my worries overtake me . smile

KatyK Sun 10-Mar-19 23:07:49

Yes. Lovely. I must take note.

MissAdventure Sun 10-Mar-19 23:06:28

That's lovely. smile

grannyqueenie Sun 10-Mar-19 23:01:34

We’ve all got our own worries, whether it’s concerns about the family, health issues or financial constraints. It’s only natural to think about these things and sometimes lose a bit of sleep in the process. Reading this today just reminded me of the importance of not missing the good things of today by wortying about what may, or equally may not, happen tomorrow. Please don’t misunderstand me, I’m very aware that many folk are dealing with with huge issues and I wouldn’t want to minimise that in any way. A reminder to myself as much as anyone else!