I’m nanny to twins of 4 years old. They do their own zips but sometimes have to have help in putting the zip together, which I do. They are rather resistant to wearing warm clothes but I get them to feel the weather before we go out to help them decide what to wear. If they don’t want extra clothes I just take an extra jumper in my bag, just in case. Sometimes they ask for extra, sometimes not as it their choice. This saves arguments and keeps me happy. I always encourage them to do things for themselves but try to avoid confrontation.
Just let your twins leave the open unless they ask for help. I think it’s good for them to take some responsibility for themselves but do give help if they ask.
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