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SalsaQueen Wed 10-Apr-19 16:57:36

For some reason I have been really low lately- but today's my birthday (60) and I realise now how very lucky I am. I've had 15 cards, loads of lovely presents, I've been to the park and the pub for lunch with one son and his children, and had lots of Facebook greetings. My other son is collecting my husband and me in an hour, to go out for tea. Then I'll get presents from both sons and grandchildren, all together.

I hope it doesn't sound as though I'm bragging - I'm not, I'm just feeling really thankful to have all these people around who care about me (only a week ago I was somehow convinced that nobody liked me - that old black dog was very bad last week)

SalsaQueen Thu 11-Apr-19 21:49:55

Thanks for all your good wishes smile. I am now going to try to stay positive and embrace my 60s! I hope my black dog has gone for a while now, and I hope you are all doing well too x

BlueSapphire Thu 11-Apr-19 20:43:14

Happy birthday SalsaQueen. I too count my blessings daily. I am so lucky to have a lovely family who have just surprised me by suggesting a meal out on Saturday. I am embarking on my first holiday alone next week since DH died last year, and they want to give me a good send-off! Bless them!

Brigidsdaughter Thu 11-Apr-19 19:17:37

Happy birthday, pleased you're feeling better x

Caro57 Thu 11-Apr-19 18:05:51

Many happy returns - and thank you for reminding us that we need to focus on the positive aspects of life

bikergran Thu 11-Apr-19 17:33:06

Happy Birthday

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Day6 Thu 11-Apr-19 16:33:43

I have to remind myself often that I have so many good things in my life. My health problems play on my mind and affect me, but I do try to put on a cheery face and not moan to people about my suffering. Not a lot they can do. I have spent a weekend with my SIL and all we seemed to do was discuss her ailments and her medication. I am too polite not to nod and sympathise. She sits on her bum all day and lets her husband wait on her hand and foot. (I know we can let off steam here but I really want to scream at her to buck her ideas up. She really is a lazy hypochondriac, the person suffering the most in all the world, she is so, so hard, done by, etc, etc, etc... and when I know people who would give their everything to have her 'poor' health I get quite cross!)

I think we have to play the cards we are dealt as best we can and look for all the good bits in life and recognise all those (often fleeting) moments hen we feel blessed and are happy. I am glad you have been cheered up by all the love and attention shown to you SalsaQueen and I am sure the love going your way is well deserved. Happy birthday - enjoy your 60s! We are younger than we think we are! I hope life continues to be good for you. flowers

glammagran Thu 11-Apr-19 16:15:33

Happy 60th salsaqueen ?

sharon103 Thu 11-Apr-19 14:09:38

Belated Happy Birthday wishes. glad you had a wonderful day. smile flowers

breeze Thu 11-Apr-19 13:48:34

Happy special birthday salsa ???

rockgran Thu 11-Apr-19 13:17:57

Always nice to hear that someone is happy and appreciates their blessings. Hope you have great memories of the day. flowers

moggie57 Thu 11-Apr-19 13:16:29

we all get low sometimes .when i do .i tend to go for a walk up the woods.make the most of each day...

Namsnanny Thu 11-Apr-19 13:09:24

—birthday—!! Sausage fingers!

Aepgirl Thu 11-Apr-19 13:08:53

Good to know you are fee.ing so good, SalsaQueen. Enjoy your day.

Namsnanny Thu 11-Apr-19 13:06:13

Belated happy happy wishes to you salsa queen, enjoy your good times and kick the black dog (well, I don’t need to be more explicit do I ??) winkflowers

jocork Thu 11-Apr-19 12:33:52

My children went to a lot of trouble on my 60th - a few years ago now - and I often think back on it on less happy days. It's good to have these lovely memories to look back on when things are getting us down. Glad you have had a lovely day and it can be a treasured memory.

Sydney2012 Thu 11-Apr-19 11:46:33

I think sometimes we are scared to admit that we are happy for fear of jinxing ourselves. I know I am. So well done you. Have a lovely birthday and enjoy every minute.

Harris27 Thu 11-Apr-19 11:42:03

I'm 60 next year hope I'll be as lucky as you! Happy birthday! X

CaroleAnne Thu 11-Apr-19 11:28:28

Happy birthday Salsa Queenflowerswine.
I am so happy for you that you have such a lovely family.I too am blessed with such a family.
On another note has anyone any ideas of how to harness the old black dog?
Love from Carole.

ReadyMeals Thu 11-Apr-19 11:25:55

Birthdays are always much better when one or more of your children remember them and wish you a happy birthday! I think there was only one year both mine did, and one of them rarely does. Just having a little moan, I don't want to take anything away from your nice day, which you deserved to enjoy! :D

Hm999 Thu 11-Apr-19 11:12:39

Many happy returns

Mapleleaf Thu 11-Apr-19 11:06:13

A lovely post, salsaqueen, and many congratulations for your birthday. ???

sweetcakes Thu 11-Apr-19 10:52:04

Hope you finished your day off with a bang and had a lovely time with family belated Happy birthday ????

Cobweb01 Thu 11-Apr-19 10:43:19

Have a wonderful birthday and enjoy the love and attention. You are blessed but clearly don't take it for granted.

grandMattie Thu 11-Apr-19 10:31:56

Happy birthday, SalsaQueen! Mine is on Monday and I know that, although I'll get cards from my DCs, I'll get nothing else. But... as you have mentioned about yourself, I am singularly blessed with my lovely loving (if occasionally too busy) family. My own Black dog isn't too bad at the moment - I'm waiting to ambush it!!!

Sheilasue Thu 11-Apr-19 10:30:22

Enjoy your birthday.congratulations 60 is a great age.