Lucky, I hope you are feeling as though you will be able to get through this nightmare minefield.
There must be an organisation that is expert in helping with the situation you find yourself in. You probably have explored all sorts of avenues, but we live in hope that you may find a solution.
We have followed your nail-biting path, with always the thought that a miracle will happen.
I am so sorry that we cannot help, but please keep us up to date with how things pan out. Exhausting as it may be.
Thought, and love and prayers for your journey.
Heated Brush recommendation,please.