Soop's warm and welcoming kitchen...

You are not foolish, ann. If you don't feel right, then there is something wrong whether physical or otherwise. I don't know if you have a sympathetic GP who would give you the once-over and perhaps prescribe an anti-depressant. You do sound very depressed in the clinical sense. But what do I know? An evening out with your neighbour will be good if you feel up to it.

morethan you have so much to cope with. You are obviously the rock in your family that everyone turns to. How ,you cope I don’t know but I hope your few days away will be of help. Thinking of you (hug)
susan I think your DH’s op is today. Hope all goes well.
I wasn’t aware gabriellag ever came in the kitchen either
ann hope you are feeling up to your meal out. Have a good time.
TOYA

So sorry to hear your life is still so hard Morethan - it is hard being the glue that holds everyone together. I cannot imagine the strain on your DS. At least he has you nearby.

Beautiful photos in the kitchen - this is a lovely time of year.

Ann I think anno is right and maybe a trip to the GP is in order. You have been under tremendous strain and upheaval in the last year.

I too have spent a couple of days in my bed. Apparently this is normal for the type of chemo I have had. It would seem that 2 days out of three weeks are a lost cause. Fortunately I am feeling better today and will have to venture out tomorrow as I feel a little dark cloud settling.

for Ann & Dragonfly. DH is very under the weather - either a tummy bug or a side effect of metformin, which does him in occasionally. As a result I have sat and read my book quietly and provided drinks. He had better improve in time for the rugby tomorrow!
It has been a filthy wet day here today and dark too. There is mushroom and garlic soup on the side with homemade bread ( from the new bread maker).
Joan Armatrading playing gently in the background to ease stresses!

Good afternoon my lovelies.

A little on the late side. Apologies.

I was unaware that the lady who has recently left Gransnet had obviously had her fill of us all for some reason or other. Sorry. I am confused. Can anyone enlighten me please?

Ann So many considerate responses to your latest post. I agree with anno. Your GP needs to know how you are feeling. There are times when every one of us lot have needed to talk matters through with someone who understands and may decide that you need extra help after what has been a hugely stressful time in your life.

Nannytopsy Wishing your dear husband a speedy recovery. I feel certain that he'll make a very special effort in order not to miss tomorrow's rugby.
The soup and homemade bread sound delicious.

dragonfly It's true...as the oncologist suggested yesterday, our bodies have been assaulted and continue to be when taking necessary and important medication. You are listening to your body. That is very wise. A gentle (hug) from me to you.

grannygravy your Halloween photo made me smile. I hope you start to feel a little better Ann these grey miserable days don’t help do they? I enjoyed all your autumnal photos. Thank you all for keeping my sons family in your thoughts, every little helps.

Charleyg Tara is a darling. She knows how to look after herself. The farm on which the feral feline family live (the ones we feed) has been sold. This may mean that the new owner, moving in after Christmas, may not welcome "trespassers". He may not welcome cats. Anyway, the small group of us who leave nourishment, have decided to talk matters through with the lady of the family. Until the property is occupied, we hope to be allowed to visit the derelict shed in which we leave food without causing offence.

granniequeenie Your photographs are a joy.

Izabella Like you, I also smiled at anno's description of the youthful consultant. A "boy child" walked past me yesterday in oncology. I swear he was in his ealy teens. Yet...he had the files under his arm, a knowing look on his face and a steady step as he went through the door labelled PRIVATE. [gulp]

Urmstongran A lovely post.

By gum, it's been a damp/chilly/blowy day. I am looking forward to relaxing in my favourite chair. Feet up, and newspaper at the ready.

Until tomorrow. TOYA

Apologies again for being missing for a few days,my health issues are truly playing up and I feel as weak as the proverbial kitten.Even total resting has not been of much benefit.
Having lost a further 5 pounds in weight and now finding my hair so weak and straggly does little to uplift my morale either.

With several Medical appointments looming large I really have to "show willing" again.

Whilst I have no real time for events around Halloween our Chef here and those that serve our meals certainly went to town and presented very suitable outfits for the occasion........together with pumpkin soup!!!

Once again Morethan my heart goes out to you in this impossable situation you find yourself,with so little room to move in the way you deal with those caught up in hurt and fear.

You too Galen it is never pleasant losing a friend and long term neighbour, though you surely will have a host of lovely memories.

As for your postings Izabella they continue to inspire and uplift,whilst I think you will be doing a great favour for the so many suffering your illness..........a great learning curve for the families especially.

Pleased hearing the brace is offering some support Lins1066 and looking forward to the day you will truly feel very much better.

CharleyG............well spotted indeed........I too was completely bewildered by this one person`s post.

Soop........I think we are all confused...........I do wonder what that was all about ?

I love the interaction between you Soop and our Dragonfly and as one whom has "been there,done that and yes, wears a prothesis........" it will be of enormous benefit to you both in fact.It is the sort of journey where you need the support of lovely caring friends.

Time I returned to my rest I guess but please know I send lots of lovely blessings to you all XX

GabriellaG also for some strange reason informed the nose job thread-again why? There was marginally more response there.

For lunch, I had a sandwich and a cup of coffee locally and immediately afterwards I was meeting a manager from the Macular Society, somebody from Age UK and a couple of others. The Macular Society was treating us, and we were in a shop called the Chocolate Shop so we indulged in ice cream with a fudge chocolate cake and coffee. I know you

will be amazed to hear I have no room for supper tonight.

soop at least the cats will be having extra food by killing the mice and rats on the farm. Hopefully they will be allowed to stay even if their abode changes.
TOYA

soop, gabriellag as far as I can see had a spat with some people on the nose job thread and decided she had had enough and was going to leave. Some had said they had reported her posts as being in poor taste. Why GG decided to inform the kitchen of this I have no idea as I didn’t think she ever posted here although I could be wrong. However, it seems that she has now gone.?

Just been out to watch a firework display. Very good but cold so now a little ripple to warm me up. Well that’s my excuse anyway ?. TOYA ?

We’re a miserable pair here, Mr C is coughing for the world and has kindly shared his bugs with me. Good job I love him . Being sensible for once we’ve decided to postpone the friends due to stay next week, third time lucky maybe as they were poorly on our first attempt. We’ll get there.

I’m also quite cross as some kind (!) soul threw an egg at our conservatory from the footpath behind our back fence on Thursday night. Real pig to clean off but at least not baked by the sun. Waste of an egg in my view. .

How are you now ann? Yes, please do have a chat with your GP, a physical check can do no harm. Be kind to yourself.

Thank you for taking the time to post morethan, you’re never far from my thoughts, you truly deserve some restful days. Oh dear panache, not what you need. How are you now dragonfly and your husband *Nannytopsy?

How is the roof kitty? did I see on the good morning thread it isn’t as fixed as you hoped?

No room for supper charley? Surely not? I may be in search of cake at the shop later, no energy to bake but any port in our current storm .

Suspect firework displays due here tonight will be called off if the wind and rain continue. The huge trees over our fence next to the river are sounding like sails in a storm, wet leaves flying everywhere.

An easy day for us. Probably watch the rugby, some soup for lunch and a quick dash to the shop to top up supplies for tomorrow.

TOYA, take care everyone

Warm mince pies on the side.

I am just popping in to thank you for all your good wishes.
My husband had his surgery yesterday and the surgeon was really pleased with how it went.It will be a couple of months before we know if it has been a success but any improvement will be good.I am so grateful for the surgeons skill and all the health professionals responsible for his care,we are truly blessed.I feel exhausted today,I think the build up has been so long and the relief it is all done has hit home.
Sending my love to anybody struggling with health and other worries.I will try and catch up with all the posts I have missed.
In the meantime thank you and TOYA

Morning all !

Its bright and brisk here today and I shall be spending the day playing catch up with my crafting.

So sorry to hear Mr C kindly shared his 'germans' as our little boys say!! Stay tucked up and indulge yourself .

That doesn't sound like a bad day Charley!! I'm quite envious.

I know just what you mean ladies about young doctors. I recently agreed to discuss a health issue with a group of student doctors at my GPs practice. They were extremely ernest and I struggled on occasion to not ask them how old they were !! They meant well but it sounds like they were reciting from a text book so hopefully they will acquire a more human bedside manner :-)

Are you feeling brighter this morning Dragonfly . I always feel a spell outside in blowy weather really does blow away the cobwebs( and should always be rewarded with coffee and cake afterwards !!)

Hope your feeling a bit chipper too Ann !

Well, time for me to go and start the day - have a good one all !

Good news Susan I hope your DH has a full recovery.

Corner I feel your pain. My DH is a nightmare with colds but recently I have retired to another bedroom so he does not pass them on.

I am a little better today - I ventured out but the weather is foul and although my DH did want to come with me I persuaded him to stay and watch the rugby. I believe days 6 to 10 are the worst after chemo then I will have a couple of good weeks before the next onslaught.

I missed your post Susan glad it all went well !

Well done Dragonfly for just making the effort. I imagine its a tough one but now you can justifiably curl up on the sofa and spoil yourself with something you like .

Nannytopsy, if your DH was well enough to watch the rugby, I can only sympathise if he is suffering a relapse. And Dragonfly, your DH probably wishes he had gone out with you after all. What a disappointment the match was. As a Scot, I should be neutral, but my 25% English blood was hopeful.
What started as a pleasant autumnal morning is now typically November-ish. I was going to quote Thomas Hood's poem, 'November', but it's just too depressing. I hear that in the south it's windy as well as wet.
Panache, I'm really sorry that your health has deteriorated so badly. It seems so unjust now that the trauma of house selling is behind you, giving you cause to celebrate.

A very wet,grey and miserable day here in our corner of Wales,but it is certainly all nice and cosy tucked up in our Apartment!!
However this darn lurgy is still hovering.

So every sympathy to you Corner with your man feeling more than a little "blue" .....it sounds as though he tends to wallow in it just a little.
Hopefully you will feel far more perky in the days up ahead Dragonfly My husband reacts in a similar way to his monthly treatment.

Understandably you are feeling somewhat wretched today Susan following your dear one`s surgery but such good news hearing it is over and now we can but hope and pray it was truly a success.

Our first taste of fireworks since moving and I sincerely hope it will not be a nightly onslaught!!
Trust you enjoyd your "ripple" *Doodle!!!!

I certainly should not indulge but I don`t mind if I do Izabella.....mince pies are one of my favourites.
It sounds as if you surely indulged on your meet out CharleyG but it is good to let your hair down every now and then.

I too add my concerns for your welfare Ann and can but reiterate a visit to your GP is in order ,you truly need to discuss how you feel and probably he/she can put your mind at rest.

A quiet weekend is planned here,and I trust your one will be kind and peaceful too.XX

I have not forgotten you. I am busy trying to get a few jobs completed before I spend time in our kitchen. I fully intend popping in later.

Hello the kitchen! It is very quiet at Chez Duster this p.m, as after the disappointment that was England rugby, my chaps have gone off to watch their football team. I do hope that is a bit more rewarding. I have spent a nice couple of hours tinkering with my painting and it is “coming on”, but you I am resisting the urge to make it “come on” a bit faster. The hardest thing to do with a fledgling watercolour is walk away from it! We have had buckets of rain but now it is clearing. I made a quiche for lunch and there is a fair bit left so before my son comes back and asks if he can take it home (and how could I refuse him?), feel free to sample it!

Susan I’m very glad your DH’s surgery went well. I wish him a speedy recovery.?

Dragonfly well done for getting out even though the weather was inclement. Nothing worse than cabin fever! After the debacle that was the rugby, I bet your DH wishes he’d gone with you!

N&G I hope you caught up with your crafting - with ?approaching I should think you are up to your eyes in projects!

Panache glad to hear you are nice and cosy in your new home. Don’t be tempted to go out until you feel better!

Ann I hope you are feeling a little brighter today?.

We have junior football tomorrow - we have promised faithfully to be there - unless, after all the rain we have had, they call it off again (??Please, Oh Lord!). I had better go and see if I can find my wellies - or my waders!
To all I have missed, TOYA.

Panache I know that Mr. Corner has been quite unwell and has not been wallowing in anything. He has managed to pass his bugs on to corner and their adult children live a distance away so cannot be of much help.

Susan so pleased to hear it is all over and he is recovering- time will be the healer.

Dragonfly please look after yourself and rest. I know the weather is less than helpful but enjoy the TV or reading, whatever relaxes you.
TOYA

Afternoon all. Where's the day gone? Other than venturing out in horribly strong winds for a food top up I've done not a lot really and should be on admin detail now. Oh well, I will in a minute. Neither of us are too interested in food today so it will be soup mark II later.

That's good news susan, delighted for you both. I wish Mr C was wallowing panache, he's proper poorly as our lot say. Silly man insisted on coming with me yesterday and then helping our eldest with some DiY, its done him no good at all so back to sleeping between coughing. Oh well, it will pass, all things do. Hope you've been able to rest and regaining some strength in your snug apartment.

Moving out didn't do it this time dragonfly, I'll be going the full on mask and gown route next time . It wasn't the best day for a trip out, hope you managed to relax a bit at home and Mr D wasn't too disappointed at the rugby outcome.

I'll hope for rain for you tomorrow greyd, in fact I'll send you some of the horizontal stuff we've had here for most of the day, that will do it. The quiche does look tempting but I expect its all disappeared by now.

I really must do the admin or it will be intruding on Strictly time. TOYA and take care everyone.

Susan Wishing your husband a good recovery. So pleased for you both that he has had his surgery.

Panache and all those feeling below par, you have my good wishes and several virtual (hugs)

dragonfly Well done, you. It certainly is a tricky time (to say the least) and making an effort is commendable. The Zoledronic Acid infusion has triggered aches and pains in my limbs. We did take our usual walk. I've also tried to chivvy myself into doing other stuff today. My thoughts are with you.

It's MacSporran's 79th birthday tomorrow. We're having lunch at our favourite local restaurant. After which...woop woop...he has agreed to go the the pictures. The first time in 31 years! (for him). The Campbeltown Picture House is a jewel in the town's crown. Art deco. Fully refurbished. Thanks to EU funding. Almost like viewing a film in one's own home with plush seats. A lovely cafe is annexed to it. We shall have coffee before attending - 'Farmagedon' - highly recommended by Mark Kermode the film critic. Don't laugh! We shall do that ourselves.

I am running late. Nothing new there. In the morning, I shall pop in to say hello to my favourite peoples.

Here is tonight's sunset. It was glorious.

TOYA moon]