It's not your children's responsibility to make you happy.
You are responsible for your own happiness.
They will make mistakes and have problems as do most people and as adults, they will find ways to solve their own problems...or ask for help.
Meanwhile, get a life for yourself and focus on meeting other people.
It's not good or healthy to live in your children's 'pockets', so to speak.
You brought them into this world and gave them the tools to live their lives independently.
Now...let them get in with it.
Love them but don't live and breathe their lives and problems.
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