As an individual I can and do wear whatever clothes, makeup or jewellery I like just for myself, or not wear any of those things if I choose. I can have my hair long or short or shave it all if I see fit.
As an individual I can choose not to have children, I can choose to have many. As an individual I can choose any career within my skill set, I can choose my body shape and fitness level.
I can do whatever I choose as an individual because my individuality is more important to me than being a woman.
My vagina does not define ME so why would I expect physical attributes to define others? If other individuals feel feminine, want to look feminine and I have that choice then so should they.