There has often got to be a painful ending before a new beginning can take place in life, and emotions take time to settle and heal. I agree that it's a shame you cannot keep your dog, they can often provide loyal companionship when everything else around you feels so grim. I once stood in a similar place emotionally as you are now, with three young daughters and a 10year failed and unhappy marriage l was desperate to move on and be in a better place, but a new relationship was the last thing on my mind at the time. After a few months, l plucked up the courage to attend a local Halloween party organised by one of my neighbours in a local community room. I sat feeling quite awkward, when a man in his mid 40s came over to talk to me, l was 29 at the time, and he said he thought he recognised me from a job he was working on as a joiner a few weeks before. It turned out to be a small world, and my cousin was his boss at work. The following week, my cousin called me, he said that Bill was himself going through a divorce through his wife's adultery, and he had asked for my phone number. On Christmas day, Bill asked me to marry him, the following February l became his wife, we has two Daughters together, and last week he celebrated his 80th Birthday, and we are still married, having found love when both of us were in such a bad place emotionally, and least expected this to happen as quickly and out of the blue as it did. Take each day at a time, love and companionship can often come along when we least expect it to, and happiness will return to your life given time.