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Complimenting strangers.

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Namsnanny Mon 20-Jan-20 19:06:42

I often compliment strangers when I'm out and about.
If a colour or style suits them I say so. Or maybe their children have been lovely, or anything that catches my attention really.
It's completely selfish, as I like to see the surprise and delight it brings.
Leaves me with a little rosy glow that I can use to protect myself against the grey weather, or the bad news that is invariably spouted.

But today for the first time in absolutely years, a stranger complimented me instead. On my hair!

Funnily enough all last week I was debating and edging towards changing it!

Now I'm back on the fence! confused

Callistemon Tue 21-Jan-20 22:56:27

But don't chat to me in Welsh please Phoebes grin
Although I may smile and nod

Namsnanny Wed 22-Jan-20 01:00:56

*Gulligrannie … what a delightful little girl! So funny your husband spoke to her like she was the adult and you were the child!! grin

Namsnanny Wed 22-Jan-20 01:16:11

Popty ping Callistemon? smiling and nodding

Namsnanny Wed 22-Jan-20 01:34:21

Bekind ...It does doesn't it? And here's one back for you.....I love your name! grin

nanamac … I think about what was said to me for ages as well!
Have you thought about putting up some photos of your cooking or makes of any sort?

I know it seems self centred, and you might feel a little awkward at first, but lots of people do that sort of thing now.

If there is no one to appreciate something you have put effort into, perhaps it's a good idea to share the results with others (on here?)
I can assure you, I would be interested!
It's just another way to extend contact really isn't it?

timetogo2016 Wed 22-Jan-20 08:44:26

I`m with CrazyH .
I did it yesterday in Sainsburys a little boy around the age of two smiled at me from his trolley seat he was soooo cute and I told his mother just that.
She beamed and thanked me.
Smiles all round.

Callistemon Wed 22-Jan-20 10:07:20

Just checking Google translate

Calendargirl Wed 22-Jan-20 10:42:51

On a coach holiday, we were sat at dinner with another couple, didn’t know them, after a day or so he suddenly said what nice teeth I had, white and even!
I was quite flattered, but as I write this sounds like Red Riding Hood and the Wolf!

Tooyoungytobeagrandma Wed 22-Jan-20 11:18:35

Callistemon =microwave? Im akways talking to strangers have ended up with some lovely friends that way. Always talk to dogs (and their owners ) & pay complinents. Have had lots of people compliment me on my hair which is nothing special and I only run my fingers through it when i get up sk no styling. Lovely thread smile

Callistemon Wed 22-Jan-20 11:24:32

Calendargirl grin

Thank you for the translation Tooyoung
I will stick a note on the microwave so I remember!

Evie64 Wed 22-Jan-20 18:33:00

I often compliment strangers if they are wearing something I think looks lovely or have great hair etc. I don't find it in the least embarrassing and it's so nice to see their smiling face. Sadly, old, fat and grey I don't often get them myself, but no matter.