Megs, as Urmstongran says, please let us get to know you and you us.
I too felt ignored at first, but I persevered, although I was actually very nervous.
It's only by posting, people will get to know who you are. However, that doesn't mean you have to be on on all the time.
I remember one of your posts where you mentioned you and your husband's circumstances over the last few years.
You came across as a very strong, but private person and I admired you for your determination and candour.
By the way, that's not meant to be patronising!
We are not a bad bunch on the Good morning thread, why don't you pop in again and say "Hello", if you have time.