BladeAnnie, I had a spell like after Christmas, the word I used was overwhelmed, by so many hospital appointments, new medication and illness, family problems as well as organising a wedding. I kept it all in, didn't tell my family, nor friends, which was not a good idea.
However, I spoke to someone and got it all out of my system. It was like a waterfall of emotions. I didn't feel better physically, but emotionally felt as if a weight had been lifted. I also reached a level of acceptance.
There are lots of kind posters on here, who will support you if you ask.
Some people are wary of PMs, but I have found them to be nothing but kind. (Apart from one, that is!) You can always block someone you don't wish to engage with.
I enjoy receiving PMs, especially on the days I can't get out.
There are more good, than nasty people on GN!
Now enough of derailing this gentle thread, I'm going back to clearing out my wardrobes and trying to be ruthless, after being seduced to buy stuff after reading another thread.
DH will be shaking his head! How many clothes does a woman need?