Married at 21. Did all the foreign travel, partying etc., settling into our own house and generally enjoying life until we were ready for a family. Had first child at 28 (labelled “Elderly Prima Gravida” on my hospital notes too!). Second child at 30, third at 32, then finally the fourth at 38.
I noticed that with the first one I was the oldest mother in the ward, but with the second and third I was amongst the younger ones, and definitely with the fourth child I was the youngest mother in the ward, at 38! It just goes to show that women were definitely putting off having families until later in order to pursue their careers in the late 80’s and 90’s.