A domestic !

I do most all of the housework here as other half works full time and I am retired, so it is only fair. I am no goddess though, I tend to do jobs as the need arises, I keep meaning to have a set day, but that never seems to happen. It is only a two bed house though, so doesn't take long.

He is a perfectionist, so I do get some eye rolls sometimes, but I just ignore them. I prefer to go out after years of being stuck in an office.

We don't have a cleaner as I would feel the need to tidy up before they arrived so defeats the purpose really.

Someone told me once, cobwebs will still be here in a 100 years, long after we have gone

Just to set the record straight we do have a cleaner who works like a whirlwind around the house so in fact it is quite presentable.

I am naturally quite tidy and like clean worktops in the kitchen. My DH is a perfectionist and often takes over doing jobs as he wants them just right so I am more than happy to let him do that.

Lemongrove I will tell DH you think he is superb, he will like that. ?

Callistemon

Paddyann I do not know where you get the energy to do all that. My beds are lucky they get changed once a week and windows are washed once a month when window cleaner does outside.(apart from window at sink)

NanKate I honestly thought you were joking. I couldn't imagine not knowing where the brush and dustpan are - or the vacuum Luckygirl.

We tend to share the work as much as possible although my husband is good at finding jobs in the garden that take a long time and require earphones and ipod.

who actually peels mushrooms these days?hmm

Me actually....doesn’t everyone? Unless they’re those very little squeaky clean button ones.

When they come home, as they do very occasionally, they have obviously had a lovely time rolling around in the dirt, no amount of washing whilst singing Happy Birthday ten times gets them clean again.

Callistemon I'm sorry to burst your bubble, but in fact your wandering dustpan and brush are by no means unique. Mine take themselves off to the garage, to the allotment shed, to the attic and to various other places where they hide themselves away until I have purchased yet another dustpan and brush, which I know will eventually give in to wanderlust. I used to think that it was simply carelessness on the part of The Wonderful Man, but apparently not.

What Shirley Conran said was "life's too short to stuff a mushroom". This was when she wrote against the great 70's wave of feminism which was seeming to promote the concept that women could have it all ! She wrote that they can't and they'll always struggle unless they prioritise. She said "What is a home?" "A home is a myth". "A home is the Forth Bridge, one damn long, never-ending cleaning job which nobody notices unless you don't do it!" ( She did have staff and I don't think she was big on dustpans and brushes!)

Your post made me giggle NanKate , it’s horrible when you find bits of tissue in the washing machine, no I’m not a domestic goddess, I do have a dustpan and brush and I know where it is, I do like some aspects of housework mainly hoovering and ironing, hate dusting

True lemongrove - apart from which, who actually peels mushrooms these days?

I thought I was a domestic goddess, but it appears I’m not.
This morning I stripped the bed, washed the sheets & pillowcases, and even hung them outside to dry on the line?

But it’s now 10.30pm and I’ve just realised I forgot to put clean sheets back on the bed ??

We always had a cleaner when I was growing up. Mum only did some ironing and cooking, so it's not my fault that I wait for somebody else to do it!

Mind you, Shirley Conran had cleaners ( and quite possibly other staff!)

I think it was Shirley Conran who stated many years ago 'life's too short to peel a mushroom' - that applies to housework for me

Love the image Dottydot

I can't settle if certain jobs are not done daily, vacuum up dog hairs and wash floors. Clean the kitchen and bathroom. Beds made.

I just can't be bothered until things get really bad. I've noticed that the windows need cleaning now that the sun's been shining. I can't see out. Maybe I'll ask those nice window cleaners to do the inside glass.

It's muddy paws time of year anyway (dog-floors, cat - furniture and windowsills) so what's the point?

The only time I spring into cleaning mode is when I'm expecting visitors. I'm exhausted when they arrive!

I don't mind cleaning, washing and ironing.

However, when I had a family at home, I did get fed up with cooking meals. My husband did cook some meals, I admit, but I did it mostly. I got fed up with thinking of different things to cook.

Now I live alone and I find it easier from a preparation of meals point of view.

BlueSapphire Lots of cheeses, crackers, olives and chocolate. Dark choc brownies are delicious with a full bodied red wine

NanKate
I think Mr NanKate is suberb, when I find a tissue in the wash, the air turns blue!
I am a bit of a domestic goddess as it happens? although Mr L will help out when prompted, I do all the main cleaning and cooking and quite enjoy it.I always have the radio on, mainly music which helps. We are both naturally very tidy so the house always looks ‘guest ready’ even when it’s just us two.
It has to be very clean as well as tidy ( no clutter other than books.)Shall I come and give you a hand, show you where all your cleaning stuff lives? ( under the sink and in that cupboard you have under the stairs!)

I will confess to enjoying all aspects of housework!
I see it as therapeutic and great exercise.
I don’t work full time so have no truck with donning the rubber gloves.
It’s so satisfying and I love the end result.

I do just the same as you, NanKate. I'm on my own now, but always did most stuff anyway. Though DH did do the washing up....sometimes.
I will have to do a big clean and tidy up in a week or so, as I am hosting our next ladies' wine tasting. My head is aching trying to think of what I am going to provide for food.

We do have a dust pan and brush somewhere, in fact two I think.
However, ours arenjnique because they have legs and they walk outside and into the garage.

I don't have a dustpan and brush..... it's often on my shopping list, but somehow seems to get overlooked.

Oh dear me, I thought that was my post, it sounded familiar. Last month I bought a dustpan and brush, went to put it in the cupboard and guess what there was one hanging there already, that was a surprise.

I have never aspired to being a domestic goddess. Why would you?
But I do have a long-handled dustpan and broom and a short one, both bright pink, and I know where they are.

1950's is alive and thriving here I do all the cooking cleaning shopping washing ironing childcare and work part time .I used to work full time but we're heading for retirement.
I like things done MY way so I keep everyone out of the kitchen ,it my domain.I like beds made a certain way so nobody touches them or I remake them when guests are "helpful" and do their own.As I do all the cooking I like to pick the food I cook although I do cook things I dont eat,like fowl for the others .
I change beds twice a week ,clean windows on Fridays ( must be a tradition) at night so I can check for smears and I even jetwash the bins.
I've never thought I was fussy ,my house is a home .There are magazines on tables ,things on the stairs to be taken up and cat toys scattered where they leave them .I think I have a happy medium ,it suits us .