coming from a home where hygiene and food safety was next to godliness, for which i am now very grateful, i was appalled and disturbed, not to say traumatised by the regime that held sway at infants school.
leaving food was not allowed, nor was declining to be served it. much of the food was unknown and rather disgusting to me. we inmates would try to spread the pudding around the bowl to look as if we had eaten it. we had to march up and show the plate/ bowl and then stack it to be washed and throw the spoon in a great container.
i remember being ordered to take a spoon from the used ones, i hesitated trying to identify the one i had thrown. take any one ! was barked. now take your bowl and finish your food.
it was not only disgusting but deeply disturbing, as i was now in a world where the people in charge where so far removed from the moral universe of my background.
far from giving a good example, upholding standards and norms of civilised living, the inverse held sway. like the world turned upside down. like hell.