I have thought long and hard about responding to this and will probably get my head bitten off.
However, GN is for all and if someone wants to complain about something, which has annoyed or upset, fair enough. We all have different opinions, and may respond to a situation in a totally different way, but we hopefully can respect them, without being unkind or ridiculing a poster. 
Posting on social media, leaves us wide open to comments and there may be robust replies, stating differing opinions, which we may not like. However, please bear in mind, the OP is sitting reading responses.
I just want to say that I have found out the OP, a very gentle and sensitive lady has decided not to post again. She is very upset at some of the unkind comments.
Just remember, many of us are struggling just now and GN is a lifeline to some. Not all of us are robust and able to take it on the chin, it's all about perception. 
It costs nothing to think, before we post.
To sum it up, it is not a wind up, as some think and we won't be hearing from the OP again.