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soop Thu 11-Jun-20 13:18:32

I am so very sorry. My computer has died on me. Am having to use MacS's and am in a bit of a pickle. Just wanted to open this new kitchen and try to catch up later.

Susan56 Fri 26-Jun-20 18:14:10

Yes Charley,we will definitely be able to assist you to your feet.?☕️??

I too despair of the crowds,the people leaving their rubbish everywhere and the people just generally not having a care for people less vulnerable than themselves.There are so many selfish and self centred people around who are loving life but making life so difficult for others.

Oh soop?I have just bought DH one of those kneelers with handles which he uses whenever he may find himself in a position where he is unable to get up.Saying that,his knees have improved so much during lockdown.A combination of less driving and no childminding.He was so excited this morning as he shouted I have walked up the stairs like a normal person ie one foot/stair after the other and no holding the bannister?

We too have purchased a she wee and a urinal bottle as our appointments next week are some distance from home and we may well be caught short.I have three days to learn how to use the wretched thing??

DD left Henry asleep in the living room while she went to make tea.Like a silent ninja,he woke up,left his little beanbag bed,climbed on the settee and ate a dish of chocolates DD had left there.Luckily they were vegan as DD is following a strict diet so she can continue to breastfeed him.He looked so proud!

Thinking of you all and wishing you all a good weekend.

soop Fri 26-Jun-20 16:21:05

Charleyg Yesterday afternoon I sat on the bedroom floor, as I wanted to use the small vac in the bottom of the wardrobes. I could not get up again. I could not get on to my knees. After what seemed like far too long, I had call for MacS and he told me to shuffle on my bum until my feet were against the bedroom wall. I refused at first. I'm no lightweight and he was considering heaving me up from behind as I braced my feet on the wall. He had two hernia repairs a few years ago. Anyway, I did as I was told. He managed to lift me into an upright position. What bothers me is, if he hadn't been in the house, I would still be there like a beached whale.

Maw I'm almost relieved that I may not be on this planet ten years hence. I no longer wish to live alongside the very people who will continue to show so little respect and regard for this precious world we inhabit.
There, I've said it. Thank you for listening. smile

It's time to put my feet up, sup brew and read the newspaper. I'm looking forward to nine o'clock. At that hour I shall have a lovely G&T and MacS will have his Friday night favourite dram of malt. Simple pleasures. wink

No storm. A little rain but nothing of note. It still remains very humid. I shall change into my freshly laundered cotton pyjamas after we've eaten. No fear of visitors.

Please continue to take very good care of yourselves. The virus hasn't disappeared.

Until tomorrow's wee gathering in our kitchen - smile moon

Puzzler61 Fri 26-Jun-20 15:04:26

There is room for a flask of coffee and I’d carry a foldaway chair for you Charleygirl.
Between Doodle, Susan and myself we can assist you to your feet.
Also I’ll bring bin bags so we take our rubbish home with us. ☺️

Charleygirl5 Fri 26-Jun-20 14:12:10

Puzzler I do not mind bringing something to sit on- the minor problem is that I would never be able to get up again! the food sounds fine but I prefer coffee- I do not need alcohol so all the more for you.

MawB Fri 26-Jun-20 13:47:08

MawB Those people who crowded the beaches and left behind their rubbish should be fined. It's a disgrace. I am hopping mad. What is wrong with the mentality of such folk? As I said before...BONKERS!

And no doubt among them were some of the sort of people who “preach” about the environment, saving the planet, saving ocean wildlife and the importance of recycling ?

soop Fri 26-Jun-20 13:24:52

Good afternoon to you lovely, funny, bossy lot grin

The storm did not break. Boy, what a sunset. I shall bore you with a photo later.

Grandmafrench I also send hugs to Ludo and wish him a full and speedy recovery.
We've been enjoying a programme called 'The Yorkshire Vet'. He really is a special person who truly loves all animals. One of his "patients" was a dog that had swallowed well over a dozen pebbles. It took a great deal of skill to open the bowel in order to remove an enormous blockage.
I like 'Wiggy' a lot. I like anything that grows happily in pots. Far less work than stuff that runs amok in the open ground.

I have used my wee pot twice. Cannot say I felt totally confident but, if needs must, I shall be pleased to have it with me on the long journeys to and from hospitals.

MawB Those people who crowded the beaches and left behind their rubbish should be fined. It's a disgrace. I am hopping mad. What is wrong with the mentality of such folk? As I said before...BONKERS!

Purplepixie You are kindness personified. flowers sunshine smile

Doodle Tyke! wink

So, here are three images. Two of last night's sunset. I took a total of eighteen, and one of me under the ever spreading gunnera.

Puzzler61 Fri 26-Jun-20 12:58:37

Yes Doodle and Susan We’ll take our blankets, set them out 2 metres apart on that capacious beach and share our Booty. In my cool bag will be smoked salmon and cream cheese sandwiches, cherries, Prosecco and carrot cake slices. ? if we only play miming games we could be quite quiet and not disturb the beach and it’s birdlife.

MawB Fri 26-Jun-20 12:58:05

@ Purplepixie your poor friends - how very unfair life is for some people sad

There are many brave souls on this thread and I take my ? off to you all. When you see the selfish, even criminal behaviour of the hordes on the beaches (and I understand at the Rec in our neighbouring town last night) it makes me despair.
But onwards and upwards I hope - gosh it’s hot though ????

Susan56 Fri 26-Jun-20 12:49:21

I have been hiding from the scorching sun for the last couple of days but am venturing out now it’s a bit cooler.

Lovely photo cornergran,my sort of beach too.Can I join the kitchen trip although it wouldn’t be quite so peaceful if we all descended?

Take it easy soop and have a good day everyone.TOYA

Doodle Fri 26-Jun-20 12:24:37

grandmafrench hope poor little Ludo is feeling better and his mummy wasn’t too cross with him.? love your Wiggy. So aptly named.
puzzler you have to learn to share as my DGD was fond of saying. I too love corner’s beach but you can only go if I come too. ?
Glad to hear your friend is a bit better purple
soop and everyone hope you have a good day. A relaxing day soop ?

Purplepixie Fri 26-Jun-20 11:43:29

Good morning all and thank you to everyone for the lovely photos, I can never get mine to up load. Must ask an expert one day!

My friend is still in hospital and thankfully she doesn’t have gangrene in her leg but she does have a severe infection in one of the bed sores. I phoned her daughter yesterday and she is comfortable and her husband is also on the mend after his oesophageal cancer operation and he is resting at home. The poor daughter has to look after her dad and her 12 year old daughter. My friend still cannot have visitors but she is in safe hands. Fingers crossed.

I will pop back later with hot toddies and some sausage sandwiches for all. Stay safe and sane - not easy during these barmy times.

Nannytopsy Fri 26-Jun-20 10:07:25

Good Morning everyone. After a broken night it’s a late start here but thank goodness that GrandpaT has found his hearing aid! One went missing months ago and is buried in the flower bed we were digging at the time, I suspect. Doom and gloom at bedtime when he hadn’t got the other. It was downstairs - phew!
We have had some rain and more is forecast so I want to get planting so that stuff gets watered in. Better get going then ?

Charleygirl5 Fri 26-Jun-20 07:44:50

corner that is the type of beach I prefer. I cannot understand anybody sitting on Bournemouth beach yesterday. I could hardly see the sand.

I also have a very short attention span. Anybody any idea where N&G is?
TOYA

Puzzler61 Fri 26-Jun-20 07:42:28

Such a soothing seaside photo cornergran. Now that’s the kind of beach I’d like to be on and have it all to myself (greedy eh?).

Grandmafrench I hope your dog is much better. It’s so horrid when our pets are ill. ?

The garden bird residents ching ching-ed their bird noises to us all day yesterday. Such a lot of chatter from the sparrows - I wonder why they have so much to say? They still have little ones in the nests - such funny little podgy, untidy feathered, wobbly little birds. They try so hard to copy the grown up ones but they are quite comical. They will gain their finesse soon and be gone.

cornergran Fri 26-Jun-20 04:04:45

We also went to see the sea cherry, nearly said today but of course it was yesterday. Quiet and spacious beach, the sort we like. It’s been pouring here, woke me and of course now I’m wide awake.

Aah, the mystery of the disappearing posts. I suspect they huddle together somewhere playing a game of hide n seek. Sorry it happened to you soop, is it any help that many of us share your frustration? Can I add my voice to the others suggesting overdoing things is a bad idea?

There’s no chance of me catching up properly, I’m not sure why but find I have the attention span of half a gnat at the moment.

I am definitely TOYA though. The birds are beginning to sing outside the bedroom window, relaxing to listen to so may be off to sleep again soon.

Be good everyone and take care.

Grandmafrench Thu 25-Jun-20 22:33:38

Sod it indeed, Cherry. That's the attitude to have. I think and hope that my dog is getting better. No sickness since seeing the Vet. Fingers crossed for a better day for him tomorrow. You take care of all your injured limbs. So glad you went to the sea, hope it did you both the power of good. x

CherryCezzy Thu 25-Jun-20 21:01:31

Seems like I get thwarted each and every time I make my way back to this wonderful kitchen ?. I know I have a touch of Alice in Wonderland syndrome but I keep finding a rabbit hole and miss out on the tea party ?

dragonfly, that's wonderful news ?. Very heart warming indeed! That, in essence means that you will be going back for your annual check. Can I dance with you?? I'm not very good, I have two left feet, a dodgy left leg, a gammy right knee and ankle but I'm up for it if you are ?.

Why oh why does the post thief keep doing it to do many of us soop? What is it's game, it's a sneaky swiper who just seems to do it for kicks! I think the post daemon is a bit like my spooky neighbour with her opera glasses shenanagans.
I have to ask why soop? Okay, okay you say the utility room was "a disgrace" - well the room will be there tomorrow. The fridge ? - a bit cooler but not it wasn't urgent - it will be there tomorrow too ?. I do "get it" but ... on the hottest day.
Grandmafrench, no soop doesn't pay attention to any of the guidance, regulations or requirements. I've noticed that. soop goes her own way, often even ignores the kitchen Drs orders too. That, however, is one of her idiosyncrasies and whilst her failure to adhere to guidance and orders is our buggeration it's what makes her the remarkable woman she is. Where's the waggy finger emoji when you want it though?

I hope your sickly dog is recovering nicely Grandmafrench, do you think your instructions will be adhered to next time or do you need one of those waggy fingers ?
What a find amongst your pots. Last year we had two azaleas in the spring, by summer time they had turned into two tomato plants ?. Strange but true .

Me and my WP on the other hand went to see the sea today, our fridge is in dire need of attention but the garden is immaculate?. We thought sod it there's rain forecast for tomorrow.

Grandmafrench Thu 25-Jun-20 19:11:59

Evening lovely people. Something which drives us all mad - a missing post. Where do they go out there into all that ether or cyberspace or whatever it styles itself. So maddening when efforts are made and then.....nothing. Still soop you have set to in the Utility room and sorted the fridge. Usual boiling day spent resting and doing very little, of course! Do you listen to any of our regulations and requirements on this thread, young Madam?

Sincerely hope that you have overcome an impending migraine and if you can feel a storm in your water, trust that you and Mr Mac are practising like mad with those sale-or-return little pee pots so that you'll always have a handy ensuite for your going out excursions.

I have recently spent a very hot but cheery time at the Vet's with a sickly dog. Said dog obviously ate something terribly unpleasant in direct defiance to Mummy's instructions and is now paying the price. So is our washing machine. The Vet has probed and prodded (and rootled a bit) with his thermometer, run a blood test and injected him with some anti-emetic, provided pills and instructions and now dear little Ludo is good to go. As I type he is eating plain boiled rice and chicken in a very small bowl and wearing a "sorry about that" expression. What a boy.

It's hard to imagine a day on the beach in Bournemouth building up into an "incident" for the Police and local Council because of the numbers. What goes through people's minds, I wonder? Some sort of herd instinct gets into people and they clearly want to sit cheek by jowl with anyone else, everyone else, even now. We used to say that when thousands used to flock to the South Coast of the UK on sunny Sundays when we lived near Brighton. OK, so you're travelling fast and furiously to the place where the land runs out ....then what? Turn left or right, then spend hours looking for somewhere to park, somewhere to eat, drink, a place on the beach and then hours in a queue to leave and head back north again. Perhaps get stuck on the motorway. Fun! I don't think so.

I was cleaning around lots of pots on shelves and in corners of the garden this morning. Really hot but put my hat on and fiddled about in the shade. I know that things often seed themselves but had a big shock when I looked at one pot from where I have studiously pulled out some annoying couch grass until the Spring when I sort of lost interest. There's a lovely little lemon flower (must look up what) in a pot which has come back from last year but I can now see that the "couch grass" isn't couch grass. It seems that from nearby, an Umbrella plant has seeded itself in the pot and even though I have tried to destroy it without knowing, it has grown into the prettiest plant amongst the yellow flowers. I must sort out the pot once the flowers have finished this year. I also have a gorgeous grass in a pot which we call "Wiggy" - again, must check on what it is- which has produced some other little grasses in far corners of the garden and which I am trying to bring on in small pots. It's not difficult to grow stuff in this climate, just hard to limit the heat and the drying out.

I've posted a photo of "Wiggy". Not awfully clear but to get a decent shot I would need to stand in the deep end instead of going and eating supper. So, excuses for that.

Hope everyone has had a decent Thursday with only very limited irritations, buggerations or annoyance. Please continue to stay safe, make each other and all of us laugh and stay away from crowded beaches !

French France hugs to everyone! Have a nice evening! x

Puzzler61 Thu 25-Jun-20 18:37:15

Take care soop, you’ve had a lot going on and it IS hot and humid. I think we’re all feeling it.
A storm or some kind of break to this heat would be desirable and SOON please.

Doodle don’t dwell on the ?-ing ?

TOYA .

Doodle Thu 25-Jun-20 18:02:51

Oops sorry. I slipped into my Argy persona there for a minute. blush

Doodle Thu 25-Jun-20 18:02:13

They’re not doing that are they soop ?

soop Thu 25-Jun-20 17:40:23

Right! No, wrong! I'm extremely cross. I had spent some considerable time responding to all your latest posts. Including saying how delighted I was for dragonfly and well done to Synonymous and I am miffed that nothing remains. I can even recall seeing the final tally complete with three photos.

The wee pots were delivered. We're to try them out later. MacS said, can we send them back for a refund if they are unsuitable? I gave him my special look.

I've spent the hottest afternoon in Scotland cleaning the utility room (which was a disgrace) and the fridge (which wasn't too bad). I'm hot and bothered and fuming because my post went absent without leave. I'm truly sorry.

My computer is still being dealt with. I should have it returned sometime soon.

It's very head-achy. In fact I have a migraine coming on. There is a storm brewing. I can feel it in my water.

Tomorrow I shall add the pics that I somehow lost earlier today.

I continue to think of you all. Please stay safe. From what I've seen of the crowds on the beaches, all I can say is...bonkers!

smile moon

Doodle Thu 25-Jun-20 17:39:14

dragonfly so sorry, I was tired last night and missed your post about your scan. That’s fantastic news not having to go back for a year. Really good. ?
That little robin is so sweet soop.
synonymous well done with the hospital trip. Sorry you haven’t been well either. I’m not sure those shewee things would be any good for me. They would need to be large capacity in all directions blush
grandmafrench you evening with friends sounds very pleasant. What an interesting home they must have.
puzzler lovely flowers. Thank you.
soop sorry your post and photos has gone missing. I will be back to catch up later

soop Thu 25-Jun-20 17:27:19

WHERE did my latest post GO? I sent it hours ago. I also attached photos. Buggerations in triplicate.

I shall just do a further check before returning to you all.

GrannyGravy13 Thu 25-Jun-20 13:02:49

Dear Soop, pleased to hear you have an appointment, I do hope that you can finally be pain free.

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