Phoenix, I know you suspected that your Mr P may have joined me on my excursion towards Argate and I assured you that it was in fact my Mr P but now I'm beginning to wonder. Gentle, lovely, adored by my female friends, likes the quiet life, dislikes confrontation and a hand tremor to boot.
My Mr P has a tremor in his right hand, most noticeable when we spoon at night, I sleep on his left so his right arm drapes across me, the constant twitching and jumping keeps me awake, I now put up with it until he falls asleep and then wriggle away.
I did bang on about it for quite some time but then gave up, he had to see the nurse for his INR check recently so I asked him to mention it to her. Apparently he forgot! She did though check his blood pressure which was very high.
This latter scared me a bit so I gave some thought to what I could do to help so cut out salt and stopped holding him responsible for my happiness and turned my attention to his, a little hug at odd times, sweeping my hand across his shoulders as I pass him, a quick peck on the cheek sometimes.
I realised these were things I expected from him but rarely gave myself.
Anyway long story short his blood pressure now normal and tremor hardly at all, could have been stress, quiet gentle types probably harbour more stress inwardly.
The other upside is we are much more husband and wife than housemates recently.
I also now feel a nice contentment in lock down together.
Your situation may be totally different to mine but thought my tale worth telling in case it helps, hope so.