SpecialK57
How crazy is it that if my dad aged 95 and living alone now chose to bubble up with my daughter who has children aged 5, 3 and 1 she could legally let them cuddle him and stay overnight with him but because my husband (62) and I (63) live together, the children cannot even enter our house unless they are walking through to the garden or going to the toilet and cuddles are strictly off the agenda
SpecialK57: I understand where you are coming from. It’s irritating me, the fact that my sons partners mum is 74 been self isolating because of health issues, but it’s ok for her to form a bubble. Where as because I’m married (my sons stepdad), and we are only 62, not self isolated but I can’t give my granddaughters cuddles. Also because we adopted a 9 year old boy who we fostered from birth my sons partner made it clear we weren’t allowed to see the girls in the garden because it made 7. But given the girls ages of 1 and 3 I didn’t want to have to say to them we can’t give you hugs and kisses so keep your distance. We’ve been to there’s and seen them through the window a couple of times, but before lockdown we saw them every week and the younger one I also had for over night sleeps in the week due to mums shifts.
I get annoyed though when people aren’t following guidelines.