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soop Thu 30-Jul-20 13:41:54

Here we are again
Happy as can be,
All good friends and jolly good company.

A hearty welcome. cupcake wine cafe brew flowers sunshine and plenty of virtual HUGS.

soop Sun 06-Sept-20 16:56:58

ann "Chicken fillet" grin mine weighs several pounds. If I had a pal in Glasgow, then the titty could have been picked up on my behalf. The lady did apologise for having to charge. It's a very fine titty. Comes with it's own beautiful box. Can't grumble. I'm one of the lucky ladies.

annsixty Sun 06-Sept-20 17:11:03

Mine is an amoena soop also with a lovely box.
Sadly I never keep it in it.

soop Sun 06-Sept-20 17:12:07

Grandmabatty Thank you. See you later.

Doodle thank you for your kind remark. I am very fond of the colour purple/lilac/lavender.

Synonymous Please will you remind me at the end of March? You will need permanently moist ground. Our boggy bit of the garden is ideal, as the rain soaks into it from the forest incline. We were given two plants ages ago. Ours grow up to about ten feet tall. The upper leaves reach through the lower branches of the trees.

Charleyg The weather throughout today has been nigh on perfect. As we walked earlier today, the song - 'The Autumn Leaves' (drift by my window) went through my mind time and time again.

corner Keep up the splendid work. I've done a bit of this and a lot of that. Nothing noteworthy. Tomorrow I shall be having my hip X-rayed. I shall be back with you all again when we return.

Paper reading time together with a brew and an oat and raisin cookie.

Bye for now. Please take care. smile moon

soop Sun 06-Sept-20 17:14:32

ann Mine is also amoena. Natura Size 9. Very realistic. x

Synonymous Sun 06-Sept-20 18:16:15

Oooh, definitely soop! Lots of thoughts spinning around my head, Himself is grinning from ear to ear and has put a note on his computer calendar already! smile

soop Mon 07-Sept-20 13:27:53

Synonymous. Happy to share. grin

X-ray done, and two new packs of hearing aid batteries also collected in the hospital.

MacS has had letter from skin specialist. Although the growths removed from his scalp were large and thick, they are not malignant. Deep sigh of relief all round.

It is a damp and grey day in bonnie Kintyre. I shall do some more ironing and thereafter, I shall read a book that I'm enjoying. Back again later.

Susan56 Mon 07-Sept-20 13:40:09

Good news about MacS soop?and good you have had your X-ray and got some hearing aid batteries.We have had a bit of a run around trying to get hearing aid batteries for my mum.

We are continuing with the great garage clear out and will be off to the tip again shortly.Living the life??Progresss can now be seen in the garage which is encouraging,still a way to go.

DH’s uncles funeral is in London next week.Nice that we have been chosen as two of the thirty allowed but haven’t made up our minds yet.It will involve a 400 mile round trip and with our dodgy knees,the fact we have never driven in London and COVID we just aren’t sure what to do.Heart says yes,head says no.We have been offered accommodation but as we have only mixed in our bubble we just don’t know what we should do.

TOYA

Grandmafrench Mon 07-Sept-20 13:47:24

Afternoon Monday Kitcheners

How is everyone today after the activities of the weekend? Do hope that the X ray visit went well, soop. Love the Gunnera photo and little you shining in the midst of those giant leaves. A bit like a Gunnera Fairy if those exist ! grin

We had some on the edge of our lake in Normandy. They really do like the water. Unfortunately (and we lived in the wilds of the countryside) they became the stomping ground of some very naughty Ragondins/Coypu type creatures, who could be terribly spiteful often beating up our ducks and stealing their food. They had the river and a mill race and a big stream to mess around in but thought it would be nice (for whom?) if they shared our garden. We eventually cleared the planting and cleared the Ragondins too - having found that they can have 5 litters a year and spread disease and dig the biggest holes for burrows in the edges of water. I never broke anything but accidentally once put my entire foot down one of those holes. Ultimately the banks start breaking up. Still.....that was adventures in another life.

I am in the middle of washing chair covers, so my sitting room looks like a flea market. Fortunately strong winds today with the sun so there will be no problem getting them back on the couches before the afternoon is over. That's if they stay on the line and don't head for North Africa before then.

Ludo, our little Bavarian Mountain hound, is very keen on his new drugs. Thankfully. He now sits next to the cat for the morning drug round and they eat their tablets with great enthusiasm. We are currently waiting to spot an improvement in his health - so far he seems a lot livelier, but it's early days yet. Fingers and paws crossed. DH has flown out to the shop for bin bags. Imagine running out of bin bags. He thought we had an extra roll - seems not. However, just as well he's had to go out because we've spotted a Magnum shortage chez nous. Who would have guessed.....and one of life's necessities, as well.

Have a good afternoon everyone. Big smiles and a hug from France. x

Grandmafrench Mon 07-Sept-20 13:48:49

Crossed posts. (Grrr!) Glad to hear all o.k.

Doodle Mon 07-Sept-20 13:54:47

soop so pleased to hear the good news of MacSporran’s biopsies.
Grandmafrench I’m glad Ludo likes his meds. Your description of the drug round made me laugh. Do you put on your nurse’s hat and wheel in a little trolley.?
Synonymous a difficult decision for you both. I hope the family will be understanding, whatever you decide to do.
Take care all

Grandmabatty Mon 07-Sept-20 14:16:54

Soop good news about Macsporran. I'm babysitting a slightly poorly grandson. He has a cold and he's teething so it's a perfect storm. The worst, absolute worst is when he sneezes. There's a touch of green to my decor that wasn't there before ?

Nannytopsy Mon 07-Sept-20 14:35:46

Geandmabatty you paint a pretty picture!
DGD started school this morning ?. A very determined little person so that should be a challenge for reception class! They were too little for me - year 2 were my favourite class.

Charleygirl5 Mon 07-Sept-20 14:57:10

Susan please think about London's congestion charge of £15 or thereabouts depending on which part you would be driving through. You also need a mortgage for car parking in certain areas. It is a very long drive when you are marginally over the age of 29.
TOYA

Susan56 Mon 07-Sept-20 15:43:27

Thank you Charley.Hadn’t thought of the congestion charge?

Susan56 Mon 07-Sept-20 16:16:34

I am worried about the length of the drive as well.Very stressed about it all.We really want to go but know it probably isn’t the most sensible thing to do.

Synonymous Mon 07-Sept-20 16:22:20

Doodle I think you mean Susan [smile ]

soop Mon 07-Sept-20 17:08:34

Susan With all that is going on, aside from Covid, I think that the distance involved together with the journey through London, is perhaps a valid reason to remain at home. I'm sure that your husband's family will fully understand if you do decide not to attend the funeral. You will be with the family in thought, and that is what really matters. flowers

Grandmafrench You never fail to make me smile. I think that you should write a book containing short stories of your colourful and unusual experiences.

Grandmabatty teething, snotty noses, buggerations a plenty. Stay calm. This too shall pass...smile

Nannytopsy I bet that you were a very kind and much loved "Miss" with the wee ones in your class.

Grandmafrench Mon 07-Sept-20 17:09:18

Doodle you are so funny - I think it'll be me who needs to be wheeled in on a little trolley if I have any more fun and games involving a Vet ! I let DH wear the little Nurse's hat - it's so him and makes the cat laugh.

Poor Susan you are definitely between a rock and a hard place. If you are hesitating and you are stressed and in two minds, I can't see any reason for going. Sticking my neck out here.....your DH obvs has lovely memories. In normal times it would be a lovely thing now to just agree to go to the funeral. But, it's not 'normal times', is it? I just thought if it was me...well, the 400 odd mile round trip wouldn't be a big deal in this country, but in the UK?! No thanks. Then you say your knees would play up. I bet. Then, with trains and taxis not being the best idea, there's not having driven in London, then the ever present parking dilemmas and the cost and timing (a 2 day trip at least?) and constantly worrying -not least about accommodation and the fact that all/most of the people you want to see aren't in your bubble. Then the worry of picking up the Virus, then the tiredness due to having to remember everything...don't touch this, don't touch that, don't get too close etc., Would your DH's dear Uncle want to put you through that? Bet he wouldn't. You could send a beautiful card, lovely flowers, or give to a charity in his name, or plant a tree - even in your own garden perhaps and have your own little ceremony. Nobody can take your own thoughts, the stories and past memories of him out of your hearts. Sorry, but that's just my take on it. Whatever you do, I'm sure you'll do the right thing for him, and for you, but don't let the day be overshadowed by the additional pressures to be endured.... and how you'll cope with a funeral so far from your home and in a huge City.

So glad to hear MacS's results. He must be thrilled and relieved. Let's hope that poor head is completely healed very soon.

Have a lovely evening all. It's G&T time here. grin

soop Mon 07-Sept-20 17:12:24

I sense that it is time to log off until tomorrow. Please take care of yourselves. I shall be with you again tomorrow. I'm sending a big group (((hug))) because you deserve one.

smile moon

Synonymous Mon 07-Sept-20 17:35:46

soop it is a funny thing that the Gunnera seems to have given Himself so much to think about that he is starting to plan for the future using a corner of the garden we had just left fallow atm. He had retreated into himself and almost given up on his favourite hobby of gardening but he has been encouraged to use his raised vegetable beds and has surprised himself with what he has produced this year. So onwards and upwards thankfully.

Today we dismantled and binned Smokie's cat tree because not only had he wrecked it but had very much outgrown it. Himself actually did the deed in front of Smokie and he was very clearly not pleased. He went through to where it had sat all his life to find that I had moved my granny's old travelling trunk into the same place and had put his donut bed on top of the cushion. The purring was sonething else and he hopped in, curled up and has been comatose for hours now! Perhaps I didn't need to buy the replacement which we are awaiting - I may just send it back. hmm Cats certainly know what they like and where they want it placed as I bought that bed not long after the cat tree and while he would get in it and kneed the dough he never once laid down in it. We all know who thinks he is the boss in this house - perhaps he is right! confused
Anyway that is the start of the furniture 'merry go round' which has to be finished by the end of the month when DD arrives with all her possessions so it is good to have started.

Synonymous Mon 07-Sept-20 17:43:55

Susan having just read grandmafrench's post I would agree 100% and she has clearly thought it all out very thoroughly. I think we are all having to evaluate everything nowadays with a completely different set of scales. I think the planting of a tree or similar in your own garden would be a lovely thing to do and perhaps a lovely card and flowers to the family as well.

Synonymous Mon 07-Sept-20 17:45:46

soop so glad to hear such positive reports about MacS, what a relief.

Susan56 Mon 07-Sept-20 18:30:29

Thank you for your wise words ladies.I think you are right and that I know we shouldn’t go.I just need DH to come to the same decision.

Grandmafrench,thank you for the suggestion of planting a special plant in our garden.

My Lancashire grandma used to say if in doubt do nowt and I think in this instance we should take her advice.

TOYA

MawB2 Mon 07-Sept-20 19:19:25

For what it is worth Susan I agree with the others.
Respect for the departed and support for the family are a wonderful thing - but not at the risk of your own health and well- being.
There is no less respect and love in your hearts and you can be with them in spirit.

Doodle Mon 07-Sept-20 19:59:58

Synonymous thank you. Yes my post was directed at Susan I get easily confused these days. ? Hope your DH is getting on well. Good he has got enthusiasm back for some gardening.

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