Doodle you are so funny - I think it'll be me who needs to be wheeled in on a little trolley if I have any more fun and games involving a Vet ! I let DH wear the little Nurse's hat - it's so him and makes the cat laugh.
Poor Susan you are definitely between a rock and a hard place. If you are hesitating and you are stressed and in two minds, I can't see any reason for going. Sticking my neck out here.....your DH obvs has lovely memories. In normal times it would be a lovely thing now to just agree to go to the funeral. But, it's not 'normal times', is it? I just thought if it was me...well, the 400 odd mile round trip wouldn't be a big deal in this country, but in the UK?! No thanks. Then you say your knees would play up. I bet. Then, with trains and taxis not being the best idea, there's not having driven in London, then the ever present parking dilemmas and the cost and timing (a 2 day trip at least?) and constantly worrying -not least about accommodation and the fact that all/most of the people you want to see aren't in your bubble. Then the worry of picking up the Virus, then the tiredness due to having to remember everything...don't touch this, don't touch that, don't get too close etc., Would your DH's dear Uncle want to put you through that? Bet he wouldn't. You could send a beautiful card, lovely flowers, or give to a charity in his name, or plant a tree - even in your own garden perhaps and have your own little ceremony. Nobody can take your own thoughts, the stories and past memories of him out of your hearts. Sorry, but that's just my take on it. Whatever you do, I'm sure you'll do the right thing for him, and for you, but don't let the day be overshadowed by the additional pressures to be endured.... and how you'll cope with a funeral so far from your home and in a huge City.
So glad to hear MacS's results. He must be thrilled and relieved. Let's hope that poor head is completely healed very soon.
Have a lovely evening all. It's G&T time here. 