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Why is everyone so bothered about the rule of 6 and Christmas.....

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Alegrias Mon 14-Sept-20 19:38:36

We've had Christmas Day on our own every year since we got married merlotgran. We usually manage to see friends and family before or after. But I can heartily recommend a nice quiet day eating good food and watching what you like on the telly!

Alegrias Mon 14-Sept-20 19:36:26

I think the press whipping up the "Christmas is Cancelled!" message is contributing to it as well.

merlotgran Mon 14-Sept-20 19:35:06

We will be on our own this year as we would send DD's household over the 6 sad

It can't be helped though. We'll just have to focus on the positives.

No long car journey at a time when the weather can be awful.
No kennel fees for Peggy.
Being able to watch all the things we like on telly without having to record them.

Oh dear, I can't think of any others. I'll have to try harder. sad

phoenix Mon 14-Sept-20 19:34:18

kitty 20 for Christmas lunch/dinner, all in one sitting, or sort of coming and going,i.e. some for Christmas day, others for Boxing day?

The most I have ever catered for on Christmas day was 12, and although we had a lovely time, that was quite enough! (Especially without a dishwasher!)

anna7 Mon 14-Sept-20 19:32:33

There might not have been national outrage when there was the restrictions announced the evening before Eid but there was a lot of sympathy. I haven't heard outrage if Christmas is restricted but people are naturally disappointed. I think the vast majority understand the reasons for all restrictions though be they Muslim, Christian or whatever.

Ramblingrose22 Mon 14-Sept-20 19:32:03

I agree with M0nica. Hearing some of the reactions you'd think that the restrictions are intended to be permanent.

If there's another lockdown, whose lives will ruined more by not being able to have everyone round the Christmas table? Those whose Christmas will be a bit different this year or those who flout the rules, have large gatherings and end up allowing family members to get infected and maybe die?

kittylester Mon 14-Sept-20 19:24:20

I'm upset because there are usually 20 of us but understand the reasoning and will hope for better next year.

M0nica Mon 14-Sept-20 19:15:05

...or Halloween. Remember the shut down at the end of Ramadan? The evening before Eid, the big celebration for Muslims, with homes and restaurants stacked with food and tables laid. Then the government pulled the rug from under them. No national outrage then.

What about Diwali, due mid November? I haven't seen any outrage over the fact that that celebration as well will be affected. As it is six weeks before Christmas, it is more likely to be affected.

Yes, we all love Christmas and Halloween, it will be sad if there are limitations, but let us remember all those other communities who do not celebrate Christmas and whose own celebrations and festivals, are as important to them as Christmas is to us, currently, they seem to be expected to just grin and bear it. If they have/will have to do it then so can we.