Dh wanted me to place an order on my IPad for various cheeses for himself and sil birthday from an expensive shop. Should have had a discount but not appearing at Checkout so he rings the company. Won’t wait for me to check online. They ask if he has received email, so I check on iPad and tell him I have. Only he won’t listen, says ‘we haven‘t had it’. Lady on other end says she can’t hear with 2 people talking So he says “It’s my wife interrupting. She always does it”. Lady goes off to find someone so whilst he is waiting I quietly tell him I was trying to tell him we had received the email. He literally tells me to shut up. I lose my cool and tell him to s*d off and he can do it his bl**dy self, fling I pad down and vacate room.
I go into kitchen and clean dishes. He does nothing, and I mean nothing to help me ever. I wait on him hand and foot and this is one moment resentment overflows.
Dh appears at kitchen door in yrbu mode. I interrupted him he has code. Tell him I was trying to help but he can place his own bl**dy order. His response is “stop squawking” which made me doubly mad. He likes to say that a lot. I find it offensive and told him so yet again.
I am still seething. Thought it might help to vent. No doubt I will calm down and place his order later.