I would have been mortified if my kids had had to have free food given to them!!!! I remember being so hard up one time i had to ration what we all ate but no one ever knew and the kids never ever went hungry. My OH and i might have done on a couple of occasions but we just drank lots of tea. He worked full time but i was a stay at home mum. So it was hard at times, but we never got into debt either. Having said all that, there were not the tech items around in those days, we didn't feel hard done by if we didn't go on holiday, we only had one car so he could get to work very early or get home very late after buses had finished running. Now adays i feel sorry for people in this situation, MH, poverty and being hard done by is worn like a badge by some, not all, but i know people, some, in my extended family who live the high life on benefits, and one who during the previous lock down used the vouchers towards paying for childrens food to buy normal amount of food each week, then used the money saved to put aside for xmas. So in my mind she didn't really need the vouchers issued during the lockdown. Some of her friends also did the same thing. There are real and false needs in all situations i guess.