My experience of women's groups in the 1970's was that how women presented, what clothes they wore, weather they wore make up, hair styles, shoes etc mattered enormously. Of course, most women there would have denied they "cared" about clothes etc but there was a kind of uniform. No heels, no make up, very short hair cuts, flat red shoes, numerous ear rings and of course, dungarees. I loved the look.
One of the feminist groups I was involved with considered our work from a feminist perspective. One of the many things we identified as needing challenge , especially in psychiatric care, was the belief at the time, that if a depressed woman started using make up, that was a sign of recovery. What did that mean for those of us who never wore it?
trisher, I feel you're claiming feminism as something only you understand and support. That the many other contributors to this thread have their own experience dismissed because we dare to suggest that there is a risk that women's voices will be drowned out by the trans issue.