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grandmajet Thu 11-Mar-21 19:18:56

My daughter’s partner cannot stand the word ‘moist’. If you use it to describe a cake, for instance, it would quite put him off!
Do you have a word you hate, and is there a proper reason for your feelings?

JackK Sat 13-Mar-21 09:03:38

Super - instead of very
Perfect - used continuously by call centre staff
Moving forward- aaaargh
Lounge
Fur baby
Momma bear
Passing away

grandmajet Sat 13-Mar-21 09:01:40

My goodness, I didn’t realise I was opening such a can of worms.
I expect someone will say they hate ‘can of worms’ now!
As someone previously posted, we’d better not all meet as we’d be scared to speak for fear of annoying someone!

Grandma70s Sat 13-Mar-21 07:08:27

I’ll probably offend a lot of people with this one, because I know it’s very widely used, but I cannot stand nanny/nan/ nana used for grandmother. It really makes me cringe.

Gwenisgreat1 Sat 13-Mar-21 07:06:06

Phlegm - yuck!
Kids, referring to small humans.
Gob
Pass
Vomit
That’s it for now!!

G1asgowgal Sat 13-Mar-21 06:53:25

Shut .....why not closed

Sgilley Sat 13-Mar-21 05:51:18

Gobsmacked and afters instead of dessert!

Pigma Fri 12-Mar-21 23:56:37

Not a word as such (though the word ‘pod’ sets my teeth on edge for no reason I can think of) but I can’t bear people shortening a plural to a singular, as in a dark tight, a full pant, a navy trouser, etc. Just makes me want to shout it’s TIGHTS or whatever! My mum does it all the time, grrrr....!

Jude10 Fri 12-Mar-21 23:48:16

Me too
Hate belly
It’s stomach or tummy

Sloegin Fri 12-Mar-21 22:42:50

Grandma70s

Most euphemisms make me shudder, like ‘pass (away)’ instead of die. Also ‘toilet’, although that is almost universal now so I’ve got used to it, though I would never say it.

I’m sure there are lots more, but my brain isn’t working.

My mother insisted we say lavatory and considered the word toilet to be a bit 'common'. I tend to say loo and still toilet grates on me. Also living room or lounge instead of sitting room, settee instead of sofa, sweet or dessert instead of pudding. My children think I'm ridiculous but these were all so instilled in me in childhood. I was a nurse and I could never stand the word phlegm which patients often used instead of sputum. It's the most horrible word imaginable. I think I have a degree of synasthesia so can picture some words making them more offensive. Very weird.

G1asgowgal Fri 12-Mar-21 22:23:20

Housewife !

If anyone asked me what I did when I was at home with the kids I always said Household Manager.

Because that’s what I was.

gulligranny Fri 12-Mar-21 22:18:28

I can't say - or touch - !cotton wool". Even typing it made me go all horrible.

sodapop Fri 12-Mar-21 22:14:51

That's a bit random Griselda smile

Griselda Fri 12-Mar-21 22:12:41

I agree with several of the above but the word I hate most is 'anglepoise' and I have no idea why.

Glamgirl Fri 12-Mar-21 21:19:03

The phrase “we’re getting there” - always feel like asking for the destination and unfortunately I have a friend who uses it a lot.

JulieMM Fri 12-Mar-21 21:16:37

Babe
Hun
Dear
Mexit .....and so many more

mrsba Fri 12-Mar-21 19:50:33

I can't stand the word Knackered. I was always told it was a swear word when I was young, so I've never said it or allowed my children to use it, but it seems to be used everywhere now.
I also hate Movie instead of film.
Sports commentators are now using the word 'Physicality' a lot, makes me cringe! in one feature they said it 14 times in 45 mins (makes me look sad counting it)

Deedaa Fri 12-Mar-21 19:34:38

I hate the way people don't give birth any more, they "welcome" a baby. It makes it sound like a surprise somehow.

CBBL Fri 12-Mar-21 19:34:30

Oh Dear! - I say "hubby" all the time! I must stop, if it causes such universal condemnation. I will now say "My husband and I" and hope no-one thinks I'm trying to "ape" Her Majesty!

I agree with "gob" - definitely not a nice word. Not fond of "Chrimbo" either.

nannafizz Fri 12-Mar-21 19:22:27

Woke

HurdyGurdy Fri 12-Mar-21 19:15:46

I cannot stand the word lipstick (or lippy).

It makes my stomach clench.

Witzend Fri 12-Mar-21 19:10:39

How true. Lucca. I have an aunt of this ilk.

Rosearch Fri 12-Mar-21 18:48:37

Buba as in people talking about or to thier baby

janipans Fri 12-Mar-21 18:47:35

"off of" - drives me mad, as does "almost exactly" and "passed away"

Lucca Fri 12-Mar-21 18:24:46

“ I speak as I find, me”

Roughly translated means “I’m bloody rude”.

Rosearch Fri 12-Mar-21 18:24:10

Buba as in
People talking about / to their baby