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soop Tue 23-Mar-21 12:57:16

Here we are again
Happy as can be
All good friends and jolly good company.

Welcome. Take a seat and enjoy our opening day celebration.

GrannyGravy13 Fri 09-Apr-21 15:50:28

I hope your appointment is satisfactory soop

I had my 2nd Pfizer jab last night and I am beginning to feel decidedly off

Sad news regarding D of E

Grandmabatty Fri 09-Apr-21 16:10:44

Thanks for the information Annodomini. I'm pretty sure it's the Spanish variety I have. I'll keep hoiking them out

dragonfly46 Fri 09-Apr-21 16:26:49

I too hope your appointment goes well soop.

So sad about Prince Philip at least my Mum reached the magic hundred.
There have been many deaths in my life this spring I am hoping for an upturn.

Had my second Astra Zeneca jab this morning and so far so good.

My thoughts are with the Panaches.

soop Fri 09-Apr-21 16:30:18

Sorry not to have positive news from the Consultant. She says that it is a difficult prolapse to fix, especially at my age. We now need to travel 130 miles return journey to Paisley hospital. There is no specialist physiotherapist available closer to home.
She has also said that I may now be getting closer to double incontinence.

I was hoping to be more upbeat. However, it is what it is. We shall carry on regardless.

I have just this minute seen the news of the death of the Duke of Edinburgh. The Queen and the family will be grieving right now. I feel sad for them all.

I haven't read the latest messages. Forgive me please. By tomorrow afternoon we should have completed the decorating. I shall enjoy returning to join you lot and participating more fully.

Goodbye for now. smile moon

Yiayia4 Fri 09-Apr-21 16:35:43

So sorry to hear your news Soop you have such a wonderful attitude let’s hope you can get some help??

Nannytopsy Fri 09-Apr-21 16:37:07

soop so sorry that you did not get better news. ?

annodomini Fri 09-Apr-21 17:02:33

soop, that is rotten news for you. It's ages since your op, so why didn't the consultant speak to you sooner, instead of keeping you hanging on?
Grandmabatty, you must be made of stronger stuff than I am. Those bluebells put up tough resistance.

NanaandGrampy Fri 09-Apr-21 17:03:41

Afternoon all,

Sad news all round today here . So sorry to hear the news is not better Soop . That's a lot to bear.

And I am saddened by the loss of Prince Philip. How very sad for the Queen who has already had so much to bear lately. The winds of change creep closer and I don't find that comforting .

Sending hugs to those who need them x

BladeAnnie Fri 09-Apr-21 17:42:37

Good afternoon dear kitcheners - I have had a quiet day after yesterday being on nanna duty (Ruby-ing as Mr BA affectionately calls our childcare duties!!). I've had the meal choices for the wedding to ring in to the venue - it is starting to seem like it will happen grin. Puzzler you always bring such lovely flowers to the kitchen smile. And soop I do hope today has gone well for you. Hoping that little Fern reappears today too. Mr BA has been out helping friends with some DIY bits today, so a thai takeaway meal courtesy of sainsbury's tonight and I'm not sure if I like thai food.....!!

Charleygirl5 Fri 09-Apr-21 17:43:32

soop so sorry, not quite the news you wanted to hear.

I am aware I am a miserable old git but do we need to hear about Prince Phillip's life on every channel for 6 + hours?

Baggs Fri 09-Apr-21 17:49:28

Grandmabatty

Annodomini I have bluebells in my garden. I've only been in the house for two years. They popped up last year and I thought they were weeds so kept hoiking them out. But to no avail as they've popped up again this year. Would these be the Spanish kind? I always understood bluebells to be woodland plants.

Bluebelles in gardens usually are the Spanish kind, Hyacinthoides hispanica . The easiest way to tell them from native bluebells, Hyacinthoides non-scripta (used to be called Endymion non-scriptus), is that the heads of native bluebells flop over and droop in a very characteristic way whereas spanish ones are upright. See pics from wiki.

Baggs Fri 09-Apr-21 17:52:18

soop, that is sad news for you and not what you want to hear. If gransnetters could will a way for your problem to be sorted out we most surely would. Sending hugs.

Puzzler61 Fri 09-Apr-21 18:00:18

Sending you a hug too soop ? one thing we know for sure is that you will not give up the fight. You mustn’t.
If the journey to Paisley hospital will give you specific help, then you must go my dear. Leave no stone unturned, you owe it to yourself. ?

Susan56 Fri 09-Apr-21 18:08:26

So sorry the news wasn’t better soop.Hopefully the physiotherapist at Paisley hospital will offer some positive help.x

Iam64 Fri 09-Apr-21 18:11:24

Sorry to read your news soop x

Marydoll Fri 09-Apr-21 18:12:37

I too am sorry to hear your news.The RAH is a long way for you to travel for an appointment.

kittylester Fri 09-Apr-21 18:14:27

Sorry your consultation did not have a better outcome soop. You can swear and chunter if you want to - we can cope.

Grandmabatty Fri 09-Apr-21 18:19:39

Soopto I'm very sad that you didn't get better news. You have taken it with your customary grace and dignity though and you are such a role model.
Annodomini apparently I have to dig them out as weedkiller doesn't work. That'll explain their reappearance. I have crocosmia which keeps reappearing too.
On a happier note, my dear son in law has a job and begins next week! He's being tested for a bacterial infection as he's still not great. I'm hoping that the job and possibly antibiotics will sort his problems out. They want to take me to Spain next year which is very kind of them. We'll see how things are nearer the time. Have a good evening all.

Grandmabatty Fri 09-Apr-21 18:20:25

Thank you for the information Baggs

annsixty Fri 09-Apr-21 18:31:14

Had to pop in to pass on my dis appointment to soop and all on here who are plodding along with ill health and discomfort.
Winds of change for our age group as you say N&G
Last week one of my neighbours who has also been a friend for many years put their house on the market and today my closest friend who in normal times takes me out every Thursday rang to say they are also moving.
They have seen a lovely apartment and are in the very fortunate position to be able to buy outright without selling their own house first.
The apartment is available almost immediately as the owner has gone into care so they can be in in a couple of months or even sooner if the solicitors work quickly.
It has left me very unsettled and wishing I had moved two years ago.
My teasmaid has called it a day after at least 35 years, such a first world problem I know, I won’t replace it.
One bit of good news I have my second vax tomorrow morning and another, my D and GC who I haven’t seen for 15 months are planning on coming to stay on May 30th.
All being well as my mother finished every announcement with.
I send my very best wishes to you all, I read every day and will keep popping in to keep up.

Jaxjacky Fri 09-Apr-21 18:42:54

Oh sorry soop, not the best news today, big hug.
annesixty good to see you, but sad you’re unsettled, change does that to us all. But good news for May, a bright spot on the horizon.
I had my friend for his second garden visit earlier, he lives on his own in a flat, due to a recent hernia op he can’t do anything on his allotment, near to mine, very frustrating. Nothing needs urgently done or we’d do it, I think he just likes to get up there and potter, but it was good to natter. I think, hope, we have rain due overnight/tomorrow, it’s needed. An evening of golf I think until gogglebox at 9. Have a pleasant evening all.

brook2704 Fri 09-Apr-21 19:00:42

Sorry today’s news was not better soop sending support your way. A long way to travel for another appointment but hopefully there may be something that may help, even just a little bit. Let’s hope so anyhow. Sending hugs ❤️

Grandmafrench Fri 09-Apr-21 19:02:37

Oh soop, that's so sad. Yet another buggeration on the winding road of life. Of course you'll deal with it all, you always do, but I think we'd all hoped that there would be some treatment which would give you some relief. Whatever's on offer, though, if it might help - as Puzzler says, do take it. You never know.

Tell you what, I'm getting really fed up with this thread - well, not the thread nor the lovely peeps on it - but the rotten server if that's what's causing the problem. Ages to get on the thread, ages to bring up a page, not able to post with any speed, losing posts for no reason. Takes away all the pleasure, I'm afraid. So, tonight I shall (try to) make it short and snappy. (Oooooh, hurrah, say all the Kitcheners!)

I think lots asked about my lovely VomitDog. Yes Chloe is well, thank you. I was not overly concerned, anno since, from time to time, she does eat something obscene and then pays for it. Actually, I pay for it in time, cleaning, efforts, worry, medical bills etc. This time, I know that I found the remains of a very elderly dog poo bag in my hedge whilst I was clearing leaves. I put it out of the way until I reached the dustbin. My furry dustbin obviously found it before I could bin it! Hunting dogs are quite disgusting like that. Hours later her tum was rumbling fit to burst and we had the terrible results of her naughtiness to cope with. The other little dog, Ludo, was declared lots better today. I shall tell you the details another time. Suffice to say he's given us lots of worries since he had a special vaccination 3 years ago which I swear has caused his health problems.

Sorry you are feeling ruff GG. The Vet told us today his Mum reported she was fighting fit (her words) for 2 days, then she complained of a temperature, headache, a rash, a lump in her lymph nodes and enormous boobs. I know. The joys of vaccinations. She's o.k. now. Another friend today said that in the UK his brother had his 1st vaccination and thought he would die. 3 days of stabbing chest pains, a rash and having to change his bed linen time after time because his fever made him wringing wet. Please rest so you get well again soon. You take it easy, too, dragonfly.

Yiayia that Boris and his new mate - what a lovely picture.

I've perfectly timed the expected rain this evening. DH cut the lawn and I weeded & feeded this afternoon, turned on the sprinklers and down came the rain. Looks like we may have a wet weekend, we shall see, but the garden will make good use of the water.

Love to you all and those I've missed - cherry, susan, the Panaches, Izabella, Galen, Hellogirl, Muse.
Are you ok, Urms? and others I will have forgotten here.
Keep safe, please.
Bye for now. x Now I can't preview! Bet I won't be able to post either..............lucky old you. ?

Doodle Fri 09-Apr-21 19:14:50

Oh soop what disappointing and upsetting news. You have put up with so much. Wish the news was better. Hugs

GrannyGravy13 Fri 09-Apr-21 20:10:16

Oh dear soop so sorry the prognosis was not positive.
So much sadness today ?

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