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earnshaw Mon 03-May-21 11:39:22

it turns out that the publicity shy couple were so keen on privacy that they didnt even want the £38 million wedding we were forced into paying for them, blimey, they could have said something earlier, like before the public coughed up a fortune for security, A list celeb guests and more melodrama than an x factor sob story, they are now claiming they wanted none of that because " it didnt feel like their day ", but they went through it anyway, bless em. They told Oprah that they actually had a private exchange of vows three days before, just the two of them were present as well as the archbishop of canterbury - perfectly normal behaviour, , now that they have aired all their laundry in public to the whole world, they are off to work on that private life they claim to crave, At least until the next big interview comes up

Alegrias1 Tue 04-May-21 09:14:01

If people want to start a conversation because they want to engage in conversation, there are lessons to be learnt from yesterday when we had a lovely conversation about a beautiful hat somebody made.

I just read the whole thread. The only criticism of posters came from the side who don't like to be disagreed with and think H&M embody the anti-Christ. If you join in a thread criticising people you've never met, just to get people going, expect what comes your way.

When I pointed out how much money they raised, somebody actually questioned the honesty of the people raising the money.

And none of us are getting off the thread. That tactic's getting very obvious, and its not going to work.

maddyone Tue 04-May-21 09:24:30

The Duke of Windsor appears to have been a rather self centred individual from what we hear about him. A couple of generations down the line we have Harry, who also strikes me as a self centred individual. I feel that any person who gives an interview to a world famous interviewer and proceeds to throw their family under a bus really cannot be a very pleasant individual, just as cosying up to Hitler during the last war suggests an unpleasant individual.

trisher Tue 04-May-21 09:58:34

Maddyonegiven what happened to one member of Harry's family I think "throw their family under a bus" might be inappropriate. (especially as there are rumours that the accident involved was actually orchestrated by the family and their connections).

Lucca Tue 04-May-21 10:01:01

Inappropriate possibly !. I personally don’t buy that conspiracy theory but maybe I’m naive

maddyone Tue 04-May-21 10:20:50

Well maybe you’re right trisher and so I’ll call it complains publicly to a famous interviewer about alleged shortcomings of their family.

Lucca I’m assuming you mean The Duke of Windsor. I don’t think there was a conspiracy myself (but am not well enough informed to be categoric) but I have seen photos of him with Hitler. I was of the impression that The Duke of Windsor and his wife lived much of the time in the Carribean so not that close to Hitler.

At the end of it all, I guess most of us would not feel it appropriate to go on to a television show and make allegations about the behaviour of our nearest and dearest. Whilst the world and his dog are not waiting with baited breath for any revelations I might choose to disclose, I simply would not do that to my family, were there anything of note to disclose. Most people would not, despite any perceived faults.

trisher Tue 04-May-21 10:23:30

maddyone you mean ike Harry's mum did to Martin Bashir?

FannyCornforth Tue 04-May-21 10:23:41

Maddy the conspiracy theory to which Lucca was referring was the Diana's death one ie she was murdered (I think!)

lemongrove Tue 04-May-21 10:24:59

He didn’t care what the interview did to his family, that’s the thing.The damage it could cause to the RF and the personal hurt he was causing to the Queen ( his grandparents) his Father and his brother.At a time when his grandfather was very ill too ( he could have asked for the interview to be postponed from being broadcast.)
Their own pique and petulance was more important to them.

Chestnut Tue 04-May-21 10:28:25

maddyone just as cosying up to Hitler during the last war suggests an unpleasant individual.
I might be wrong, but I don't think the Duke of Windsor 'cosied up' to Hitler during the war did he? A lot of people thought he was a very dynamic, charismatic leader before the war and may have associated with him. It was only later they all saw his true colours.

Lucca Tue 04-May-21 10:28:36

FannyCornforth

Maddy the conspiracy theory to which Lucca was referring was the Diana's death one ie she was murdered (I think!)

I was.

FannyCornforth Tue 04-May-21 10:29:04

I think that he (Harry) is as thick as mince, unfortunately.
And of course, due to his huge previledge, he can't see it.
That's why he does so many thoughtless, daft things.
He means well though.

FannyCornforth Tue 04-May-21 10:31:19

Chestnut I believe that you are correct.
I've been reading a lot about that period, particularly about Wallis Simpson and also the Mitfords.

maddyone Tue 04-May-21 10:32:21

Yes trisher exactly like that.

maddyone Tue 04-May-21 10:34:42

Well ladies, I did say I didn’t know much about The Duke of Windsor didn’t I? But I have definitely seen pictures of The DofW with Hitler, and so maybe not cosying up, but definitely approval.

maddyone Tue 04-May-21 10:36:59

Maybe Fanny you can tell us more as you’ve been reading about it. I know I don’t know much.

Ellianne Tue 04-May-21 10:40:41

FannyCornforth

Chestnut I believe that you are correct.
I've been reading a lot about that period, particularly about Wallis Simpson and also the Mitfords.

Oh yes please Fanny can you enlighten us what went on?

maddyone Tue 04-May-21 10:41:59

Chestnut

maddyone just as cosying up to Hitler during the last war suggests an unpleasant individual.
I might be wrong, but I don't think the Duke of Windsor 'cosied up' to Hitler during the war did he? A lot of people thought he was a very dynamic, charismatic leader before the war and may have associated with him. It was only later they all saw his true colours.

I’m assuming you mean Hitler was charismatic Chestnut. He probably was just that, unless you happened to be Jewish, gay, or in some way disabled. Then he was someone to fear. I know the Jewish community were very frightened when he became Chancellor.

FannyCornforth Tue 04-May-21 10:44:50

Unfortunately Maddy, I'm not particularly good at remembering things at the moment, so I'm not exactly a good source or good at being put on the spot iyswim.

I do know that there has recently been a book published that claims that the Duke of Windsor was actually a Nazi spy; it's been very well received, so you could be barking up the right tree after all.

SusAngela56 Tue 04-May-21 10:46:55

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Peasblossom Tue 04-May-21 10:47:25

The Duke of Windsor spent most of the War as Governor of the Bahamas. Before that he had close links to the Nazis and his abdication was described by them as “a great loss”.

My ex-mother-in-law was a child when the Duke of Windsor (then the Prince of Wales) visited her home for a house party. The red carpet was rolled out for his arrival, down the steps and onto the drive. All the servants were lined up and the family to greet him.

The car drew up and he tumbled out, so drunk that two aides had to carry him upright. As he advanced he vomited all along the red carpet and up the steps, with the servants curtsying and bowing as he passed and reached the family. At which point he patted her on the head and passed out.

It was memory that never left her ?

Namsnanny Tue 04-May-21 10:48:53

Precisely maddyone I echo your last paragraph

I find it incomprehensible that any supporters of theirs arnt ashamed of the callous entitled behaviour they have shown.

BTW, I've read that resulting in bringing Hitler into the conversation is a sign you know you've lost the credibility of your position! grin

FannyCornforth Tue 04-May-21 10:51:04

Peasblossom what a brilliant story!
Thank you!

maddyone Tue 04-May-21 10:53:43

Oooh Fanny that’s interesting. I wouldn’t have thought The DofW was a spy myself, but hey, what do I know.

Chestnut Tue 04-May-21 10:53:45

The Duke of Windsor was probably a weak character, and maybe easily led which is why he fell for Hitler's charms, as did many people. I'm just not sure he was still a follower when it transpired exactly what Hitler was up to later in the war. No-one realised quite how horrific Hitler's dreams were at the start of the war.

Namsnanny Tue 04-May-21 10:55:13

Peasblossom

The Duke of Windsor spent most of the War as Governor of the Bahamas. Before that he had close links to the Nazis and his abdication was described by them as “a great loss”.

My ex-mother-in-law was a child when the Duke of Windsor (then the Prince of Wales) visited her home for a house party. The red carpet was rolled out for his arrival, down the steps and onto the drive. All the servants were lined up and the family to greet him.

The car drew up and he tumbled out, so drunk that two aides had to carry him upright. As he advanced he vomited all along the red carpet and up the steps, with the servants curtsying and bowing as he passed and reached the family. At which point he patted her on the head and passed out.

It was memory that never left her ?

Did this happen in the Bahamas Peasblossom?