^Plus yes we do know what he looks like. Where is OP?
Why do people open a thread asking a question and then disappear. So rude.^
I agree Lucca. If nothing else one should have strength in your own convictions as the OP to come back and discuss points raised. It is rude to just disappear, especially when the thread starts to flounder in its original intentions.
It's raining here too. I'm fed up and DH is hooked up all weekend to the Grand Prix from a 23 degrees Barcelona!
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